Just because you’re interested in a woman does not mean you have to spend your time chasing after her. Doing so will only make you less attractive in her eyes, which is why you want to make such a strong impression that the woman is compelled to chase you. All you have to do for this to happen is show her you are somebody worth chasing.
Beautiful women get approached, hit on, and asked on dates all the time. What’s much harder for them to find, and what they’d prefer, is a guy so intriguing that she is compelled to chase him.
So how can you get a woman to chase you? First she needs to see you as a high value individual. The type of guy that doesn’t come along every day so she better act fast. You can demonstrate that you are this type of person by showing you live a high quality lifestyle.
A high quality lifestyle doesn’t mean you have to drink $100 champagne on a yacht with rock stars. It doesn’t come from fancy things you own or famous people you know. It’s much simpler than that. Things like great friends, ambition, and enjoying fun, interesting activities can all be signs of a high quality life.
When you’re talking about your friends to a girl, mention them in a positive light. Bring up their positive characteristics – loyalty, humor, adventure-seeking, etc. Talk about them in a way that will make her want to meet them. Showing you surround yourself with quality, high-value people shows that you are a high value person yourself. It also has the effect of making her feel good that you’re interested in her. Interest means more when it comes from a guy who has high standards.
It may help to spend some time reflecting on the positive characteristics of your friends – what you like most about them and what makes them good people. See if you can think up a few stories that reflect these characteristics and have them in the chamber ready to be told at any time. This way when the situation presents itself and you have the chance to talk about them in a positive way, you’ll be ready.
Ambition is another attractive lifestyle trait. Women are attracted to a guy who lives a life with purpose and meaning. This doesn’t mean you need to earn a certain amount or have a fancy title. What’s more important is showing you’re the type of guy who’s looking to make a positive impact on the world. Even if it’s on a small scale, just showing that you’re working towards doing something positive with your life will help her see you as a high value guy. Hell, the fact that you’re reading this site shows you’re this type of guy. You’re willing to put effort into becoming a better you. This in itself is an attractive trait that shows a type of ambition that most guys do not have.
Another way to show you live an attractive lifestyle is through the fun and interesting activities you do. Whether its classes you’re taking, teams you join, trips you take, volunteer activities…whatever. You want to demonstrate that you spend your time doing cool and exciting things. She may want to take part in them, or she may just be impressed that you’re doing so much with your life. At the end of the day most women will be more intrigued meeting a guy who just got back from his weekly Toastmasters meeting than a guy who just spent the past 6 hours playing Halo with strangers online.
It’s easy to demonstrate a high quality lifestyle when you live it naturally. When you’re able to make friends easily and fill your social circle with quality, high value individuals. When you have the confidence to become the person you want to be and go for anything you want in life. The confidence and social skills you get from an AoC bootcamp will give you the ability to do just that. These traits will become so ingrained that you’ll be able to show that you’re a high value individual without any effort. As a result women will chase after you like never before.