How to Attract Women with Body Language

You probably already know that body language is one of the best ways to attract a woman; but how? There are no tricks here, just basic, common-sense advice that any man can follow to get women chasing after him. Read on for the comprehensive guide on what you need to do with your body language to make yourself irresistible to women. The good news is, attracting women with body language is a lot easier than you think.

How to Attract Women With Body Language, Part 1: Posture

When it comes to attracting women, you probably already know that confidence is the big lady killer. How do your project confidence? There are a lot of ways to do this, but good posture is one of the best. Here’s how you get posture that will attract women:

  1. Stand in front of your bathroom mirror

  2. Stand up as straight as you can, as if there’s a string pulling at the top of your head.

  3. Relax your arms and shoulders

  4. Close your eyes

  5. Remember what standing like this feels like

Now, every time that you go out when you catch yourself slouching, just remember what good posture feels like. This is the biggest piece of your body language and the one that’s going to go the furthest when it comes to how to attract women.

How to Attract Women With Body Language, Part 2: Smile

A smile is what sells pretty much anything that you say. It’s an indispensable tool in your body language bag for attracting women. Here’s how it’s done:

  1. Go back to your bathroom mirror

  2. Remember something hilarious. Start laughing hard. Don’t worry if you have to fake it a little at first

  3. Let the laughter fade into an exaggerated smile

  4. Let the smile fade into a more natural smile

  5. Remember what this feels like

That’s it. That’s all you need to do to create the killer smile that will have women hanging on your every word and letting you get away with saying and doing things you never thought possible.

How to Attract Women With Body Language, Part 3: Eye Contact

If you’re like most men, you probably don’t make enough eye contact with women when you’re trying to create attraction. Basically, when you’re talking to her, you need to be looking her in the eye. You cultivate that subtle body language and you’re going to see attraction skyrocket.

How to Attract Women With Body Language, Part 4: Angle

A lot of men ignore their angles when it comes to body language. What we mean by this? We mean that most men face women dead on when they’re talking to them. Instead, you want to approach from the side. Once you start talking, turn toward her when you talk. Then, turn away but lean in when it’s her turn to speak. This simple body language hack can help you go leaps and bounds toward creating more attraction with women.

How to Attract Women With Body Language, Part 5:

Touch is the thing that will take you to the next level with your body language. It’s totally OK to touch a woman in a safe spot like her hands, her upper back or her arms when the two of you talk. Not only will this create more attraction, it also shows confidence.

AJ Harbinger - author of 1048 posts on The Art of Charm

AJ Harbinger is one of the world’s top relationship development experts. His company, The Art of Charm, is a leading training facility for top performers that want to overcome social anxiety, develop social capital and build relationships of the highest quality. Raised by a single father, AJ felt a strong desire to learn about relationships and the elements that make them successful. However, this interest went largely untapped for many years. Following the path set out for him by his family, AJ studied biology in college and went on to pursue a Ph.D. in Cancer Biology at the University of Michigan. It was at this time that he began to feel immense pressure from the cancer lab he worked in and began to explore other outlets for expression. It was at this point that The Art of Charm Podcast was born.

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