Attraction all begins with getting a woman to notice you. You don’t have to work too hard for it, but it’s good to do a few little things that are going to get female notice. If you want to know how to get a woman to notice you, you aren’t alone. In fact, it’s one of the most common questions that we get asked here at The Art of Charm. Read on to learn the small, simple things that you can start doing right now in regards to how to get a woman to notice you and create attraction.
Dressing Smart Doesn’t Mean Being Flashy
We know, we know. Not every man is interested in being a fashion plate. The good news is that getting a woman to notice you based on how you dress isn’t about being flashy. It’s mostly about having shined shoes, a shirt with a collar and clothes that fit you very well. In every situation, fit is better than anything else in terms of making you look good enough to get noticed.
It should come as no surprise to you that confidence is one of the most attractive things in the world — to women and men. Displaying confidence doesn’t require confidence. Simple things like good posture, a killer smile and an outgoing attitude can have you looking like a supremely confident man, even when you’re not. The best part is that, over time, you acting confidently, as well as feeling more confident because of how you’re perceived. It’s good all around.
One of the best ways to display confidence is with what we call a bar walk. How this work is: Walk around with your head held high getting cheers and high fives from other people as you go. This makes you look like the man in the room who knows absolutely everyone. This is a great way for you to build confidence, as well as get a woman to notice you before you even start talking to her. Don’t be surprised if, when you start talking a woman, that she mentions noticing you before.
Get Her to Smile and Laugh
When it comes to how to get a woman, there’s only one thing that even comes close to confidence in terms of being a lady killer — a sense of humor. Getting her to smile or even laugh is going to make her take notice. Most guys that she talks to throughout the course of a night won’t be able to do this. It’s not just that getting her to smile or laugh entertains her; In fact, it’s more about making her feel comfortable. Social settings are inherently stressful and laughter is one of the best ways to make her feel at ease (and, at the same time, have her remember you as an awesome guy) is to get her to laugh.