Before you try to take things to the next level with a girl you’ve got to know the answer to one simple question: “Does she like me?” Knowing the answer is “yes” will then make it much easier to move things forward with confidence. So to answer the question “Does she like me?”, here are the ways to tell that a woman finds you attractive and interesting.
Table of contents
- How to tell if a girl likes you (by where and how she’s standing)
- Conversational signals that a girl is interested in you
- How to tell if a girl is flirting with you
- Subtle signals a girl wants you
- Eye contact and attraction
- One last (and often overlooked) indicator of interest:
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How to tell if a girl likes you (by where and how she’s standing)
If a girl likes you she’s often going to put herself in close proximity to you. For example, let’s say you’re at a bar and you get a girl to notice you who finds you attractive. She’ll find an excuse to move closer to you or linger in your area. She does this hoping that you’ll notice her, approach her, and start a conversation with her.
As you get to know one another, proximity is a good way to tell if a girl likes you. If you stand or walk so close together that you’re sharing personal space – or even touching – that’s a very clear sign she’s comfortable with you and can even be a signal she likes you.
Another way to tell if a girl likes you is to read her body language signals of attraction. For instance, does she lean in toward you and face you with her entire body? As in, are her head, torso, and feet all pointing in your direction? If yes, it’s a sign she likes you and is fully engaged with you.
Conversational signals that a girl is interested in you
When a girl likes you she’ll make a point to start a conversation with you. Even something as simple as her walking up and asking “what time is it?” could be an indicator of interest from a woman. After all, she has other ways to learn the time (check her phone, ask her friends, etc). But instead she goes out of her way to ask you.
Once you start a conversation with the girl, a great way to tell if the girl likes you is whether or not she helps you move the conversation forward. Rather than just giving one-word answers, she’ll put in effort to extend the conversation. Perhaps she responds and builds on your banter, or asks you questions about yourself.
How to tell if a girl is flirting with you
Touch is the main way most women flirt with men. It signals to the guy that she finds you attractive, while telling other women “back off, he’s mine”.
One common way a woman will flirt is to gently touch you during a high point in the interaction. For example, a girl may touch a guy’s arm while saying “oh my god you’re so funny” to signal her interest. Other touching behaviors, such as if a girl is preening you (fixing your tie, brushing lint off your shoulder) can also be her way of showing she finds you attractive.
Now, some women are just very touchy in general. So to accurately read this signal of interest in women, look out for how much the girl touches everyone else. If you notice she’s touching you more than she touches the average person, it’s much safer to assume it’s a sign of attraction.
Subtle signals a girl wants you
If a woman is interested in you she’s going to make a point to get your attention. For reference, here are three subtle ways a woman might get you to notice her:
- She responds when you make comments to nobody in particular
- When you’re around, she starts talking louder than usual or begins making comments to the room – hoping you’ll overhear her and jump in.
- She’ll flip her hair or start dangling her shoe. These action movements draw attention and are essentially her way of saying “look how cute and feminine I am”.
Eye contact and attraction
A great way to tell if a woman likes you and enjoys your company is to read her eyes. When people like what they are seeing and experiencing, their pupils dilate so they can take more of it in. So when a girl likes you or you say something she really enjoys, her pupils will get larger and her eyes will get wider. Blood flow to her eyes will also increase, causing the eyes to light up and look “shiny”.
One last (and often overlooked) indicator of interest:
Just the fact that a girl is choosing to be with you and talk to you when she could be doing a million other things is in itself a sign of interest. If she didn’t like you, she’d find a way to excuse herself and move on.
As simple as this is, it’s actually an incredibly powerful thing for men to grasp. When you realize that merely interacting with you is a sign of interest, you no longer have to worry “Does she like me?” and hunt for indicators of interest. Instead, just assume she likes you. That assumption will help you feel more confident when talking to the girl, which in turn can actually get her to feel attracted to you (if she’s not already).
Once you have a handle on whether or not she likes you, it’s time to pay attention for the hidden signs she’s falling in love with you.
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