Do you go out a lot but don’t know how to pick up girls at a bar? It’s the quintessential place to meet and attract women. But a lot of men feel that they’re falling short when it comes to picking up girls at a bar. That’s OK: The Art of Charm is here to show you how to pick up girls at a bar and make the most out of your night every time that you head out.
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Stand at a High Trafficked Area
Here’s a killer way to get the women coming to you: Stand in a highly trafficked area of the bar. If you’re standing where there are a lot of people congregating, you look like you’re in the center of it all. You also have lots of women going by you, presenting you with ample opportunity to strike up conversations with them. When you head out to a bar, scout out the best places in the bar to be. Then start making the rounds.
Clink Glasses / Get High Fives
A quick and dirty trick. Look like a guy who knows everyone out at the bar: clink glasses and high five strangers. Few guys are going to leave you hanging as you walk by, your glass aloft or your hand in the air. You create social value for yourself when you do this and you give value to them. When girls see you walking around doing this, they’re going to see a fun-loving guy. They’ll see you as someone who’s easy to talk to and who seems to know everyone at the bar.
Approach Immediately and With Confidence
Approaching women with confidence is your key to knowing how to pick up girls at a bar. When you hover around, waiting for your turn to talk, it shows a lack of confidence. And it comes across as creepy or weird. Be the guy who walks up to women right away and starts talking to them right after you see them.
We get it. It can be hard to approach a woman with confidence. Read this quick guide on how to get more confidence with women. But remember: You miss 100 percent of the shots you don’t take.
How to Chat Her Up
After you approach, you’re going to have to say something. The good news is the words don’t matter much. It’s about the attitude that you convey when you walk up to her. You want to smile, walk tall and say something fun and playful. Remember that it’s not about bowling her over with some kind of perfect pickup line that’s going to make her instantly fall at your feet. On the contrary, when you chat girls up at a bar it’s to get them interested in talking. The first thing you say to her is to get her interested in the next thing that you’re going to say.