Flirting can be hard, as can texting. You put both of them together and you’ve got a formula for hard mode. But The Art of Charm has been doing a lot of research into texting over the years. As such, we know exactly what works and what doesn’t when it comes to texting and flirting tips. We’ve got a book and free reports, but here’s a quick intro to what works best when it comes to texting and flirting tips.
You might not want to send emoticons when you’re chatting with your buddies, but you’ll definitely want them when it comes to chatting with girls. It’s a great way to let her know when you’re being playful and flirting. They add a whole other dynamic to a conversation that’s only going to help you communicate more effectively and charm her via text. The reason for using Emojis or other emoticons is because you want to keep things light. Using Emojis is cute, playful and fun and she’ll pick up on that.
Make Her Laugh
The main thing here is to get her to laugh. What you really want to do when you text and flirt with her is create some tension but also get her to smile. You don’t want to get into heavy conversation or even engage in “getting to know you” types of conversation. Save that for when the two of you are together.
Never Do Rapport Via Text
In fact, you always want to be moving toward your goal, even if it’s just in a small incremental way when it comes to texting and flirting tips. You want to get her to agree to go on a date with you so that you two can really get to know each other in a way that you can’t when you’re just texting back and forth.
Go For the Date
Eventually, you’re going to want to get that date. The time to do this is really any high point in the conversation when things are going well. Don’t ask her out on a date: Tell her that the two of you need to go out sometime. Have three date ideas ready: Things that the two of you can do together and have a great time doing them.
If she doesn’t like the first idea, that’s fine. Try the others. It might even be an issue of timing — i.e., she’s really busy at this time — rather than her not liking what you’re offering to do. If at first she doesn’t agree, try again. You’ll find the great date idea that will get her off the phone and in your presence.