If you want to be successful with women, body language is everything. It’s more important than your words, more important than your routines, and even more important than your physical appearance. Solid body language is the best way to make a strong first impression and get woman to notice you for the right reasons, so its importance can hardly be understated. Here are some basic but essential tips to help you sharpen your body language:
1) Fake it ‘til you make it. Scientific studies have shown that when we fake it, we begin to feel it, and our brains begin producing the necessary chemicals to reinforce those feelings. So even if you aren’t feeling strong or confident, exhibit those qualities anyway. Your brain will follow suit.
2) Always be smiling! When you smile, you invoke positive feelings in yourself and the people around you. If you don’t smile, people may associate you with negative feelings, and that will kill your chances with any woman.
3) Every guy faces approach anxiety on some level, but be careful when you start to feel the tension and pressure. Instinctively, your body may revert to its comfortable or defensive self. For instance, you may start crossing your arms or recoiling without even realizing it. So when the tension comes, be extra mindful of your body language, and keep it positive.
4) Be mindful of the fact that people are constantly noticing you. People can see your body language from across the room, so train yourself to give off the right kind of body language all the time, and not just when you’re consciously trying to impress a woman.
5) Give yourself body checks several times a day. This will help you to help become more conscious of your body language, work on your weak points, and naturally let go of bad habits. The more you practice, the less you will have to think about it, until it finally becomes second nature.