Here to share with The Art of Charm his secrets to succeeding at anything is former NFL great and current head honcho of "I'm Not You", Olaniyi Sobomehin.
Olaniyi Sobomehin | I’m Not You (Episode 417)

To succeed, focus on what you want and how to get it, nothing more. “Your beliefs really shape what you do or don’t do.” -Olaniyi Sobomehin The Cheat Sheet: When does discipline really count? Why success isn’t as complicated as most people think. A practical exercise to turn fear into confidence. Why physiology plays such […]

In episode 416 of The Art of Charm, we learn how entrepreneur and speaker Cole Hatter overcame tragedy to have a measurable, positive impact on the world.
Cole Hatter | Survive and Thrive (Episode 416)

Tragedy is not a choice; learning how to thrive in its aftermath is. “When you get thrown out of a car going 80, you usually leave a little bit of skin on the pavement.” -Cole Hatter The Cheat Sheet: How can you ensure that tragedy creates rather than conquers? You don’t have to give up […]

On this toolbox episode of The Art of Charm you'll find out the three levels of rapport, and how to use each effectively to develop deeper relationships.
AoC Toolbox | Rapport (Episode 415)

Rapport takes time, patience and vulnerability. “You have to be interested to be interesting.” – Johnny Dzubak The Cheat Sheet: Why you have to be vulnerable to connect. The three levels of rapport-building. What is floodlighting? How to build rapport if you’re shy or introverted. Why making mistakes is the best way to learn. And so […]

Dr. Emily Nagoski, author of Come As You Are, explains the science of desire and the two types of desire response on today's episode of The Art of Charm.
Dr. Emily Nagoski | Come As You Are (Episode 414)

Most of us have been taught some BS about sexual desire. “The way to become a person’s type is to treat them in a way that makes them feel really, really good.” -Dr. Emily Nagoski The Cheat Sheet: Why women are easier to turn off than men. What is yucking people’s yums? Dr. Nagoski explains how […]

Dr. Aubrey de Grey, founder of the non-profit SENS organization, joins The Art of Charm to share how and his team are working to help all of us avoid aging.
Dr. Aubrey de Grey | How We Can Avoid Aging (Episode 413)

Who wants to live forever? You do, and the science of rejuvenating biotechnology aims to make it a possibility. “Aging is the world’s number one problem.” -Dr. Aubrey de Grey The Cheat Sheet: Dr. Aubrey de Grey explains why breathing is bad for us (really). Is a four-digit lifespan truly possible? 100,000 people die every […]

Larry King | Curiosity is King (Episode 412)
Larry King | Curiosity is King (Episode 412)

Curiosity about everything makes you ready for anything. “There isn’t a person alive who doesn’t think they’re interesting. My job is to make that ‘interesting’ come out.” -Larry King The Cheat Sheet: What traits come naturally to a good broadcaster — and can these traits be taught? “Just be yourself” is more than the cop-out […]

Esther Perel is a brilliant psychotherapist who wrote the bestseller Mating in Captivity. She joins us to share how to appreciate any relationship we have.
Esther Perel | Mating in Captivity (Episode 410)

As Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence author Esther Perel can confirm, relationships are still complicated. “We are creatures of meaning and we want to feel we matter.” -Esther Perel The Cheat Sheet: Why have we lost the value of relational intelligence? How to know if you’re in a role or are being accountable? How […]

On this toolbox episode of The Art of Charm we'll talk about banter: how to be good at it, how to keep it playful and why you don't always have to be funny.
AoC Toolbox | Banter (Episode 409)

In this toolbox episode of The Art of Charm we’ll talk about the three characteristics you embody through banter, how to keep it playful throughout, and why you don’t have to be funny to be good at banter. “A man who stands for nothing will fall for anything.” -Malcolm X The Cheat Sheet: Do you […]