No One is Everyone’s Cup of Tea


I remember one particular day in seventh grade… I was rattling on and on to my dad yet again, gossiping about this person and that person that he didn’t know and bless his heart, probably didn’t care about at all. I was all, “Blah blah blah, she likes him but he doesn’t like her, which doesn’t make sense because she’s … Read More


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Building Strong Inner Confidence


We have been our own worst critic since the dawn of time. We can be down right ruthless with ourselves. If we talked to others the way we talk to ourselves, we would push away a lot people from our lives. Even when it comes to our looks we can be critical. From the bump on our nose to the … Read More


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How To Flirt With Women


When it comes to meeting and charming women, you’ll get nowhere without good conversation. Banter and flirting are the backbone of seduction, and your words can unlock new opportunities and jump start a relationship. Just as easily, however, saying the wrong things can lead to disaster. The tools you need for the best banter and flirting have been covered extensively … Read More


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Seeing Is Not Believing


Seeing is not believing. Believing is seeing. How many of you understand this statement? Basically you will not be able to see signs of attraction because you do not believe she is sending them. How could you see them if they are not there? Is it in your reality that she could be attracted to you? If it is you … Read More


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Open Up And Say Ahhh


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The easiest way to get what you want is to ask for it. We’ve talked here immensely about asking for what you want and how high value people are comfortable doing so. They are fine whether they get what they want or not. They would rather leave an interaction knowing that they went for what they wanted than wondering, “What … Read More


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Attraction Refresher Course


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Having an understanding about how you are treating the first few minutes of an interaction will really help you out in the long run. Let’ face it. The first few minutes always seem like the hardest, so let’s help you guys through that. Some basic rules for attraction: -View attraction as an interest or curiosity. Don’t attach sex until they’ve … Read More


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Jessica Rabbit Syndrome


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Have you ever looked at someone and thought that he/she just looked mean? Or saw a beautiful woman out who looked angry, but after talking to her you realized that she was actually cool? I call that the Jessica Rabbit syndrome. This is about giving everyone a chance and not judging a book by its cover. Not everyone is clued … Read More


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Showing Interest


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When we talk about qualifying, we are talking about showing some interest. Showing interest can be scary for people who are afraid of rejection. The cool thing about qualifying is that it’s done in a roundabout kind of way. By asking questions about your subject’s passions and personality, you are inadvertently showing a curiosity about the person you are speaking … Read More


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Getting Women to Chase You


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Many guys will get into social dynamics to acquire what they think will be validation for themselves (higher numbers). The truth of the matter is that if you have done the work properly to become a highly charismatic guy, then you probably don’t have much time for the droves of girls you want to hang out with. I’m not saying … Read More


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