You just got home from your date and now you’re asking yourself the $64,000 question: Does she fancy me? The good news is that there are very simple and direct ways to figure this out. Using this article you can give up the guesswork and stand on firm footing knowing whether or not she’s into you.
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The First Tell: Body Language
Body language is a very powerful indicator of attraction. The body says much more than words ever can. Two ways to evaluate interest based on body language are:
- Facing Toward You: Whether she’s just angling her body toward you or facing you dead on, this indicates attraction.
- Distance: How much distance does she maintain? The closer she is to you, the greater the possibility that she’s very, very interested.
The Second Tell: Eye Contact
Eye contact is another major sign of her interest. If she’s maintaining good eye contact with you, it’s a sign of attraction — and confidence. On the other hand, if her attention is everywhere but on you, that’s not a good sign. For your part, you should also be maintaining good eye contact throughout a date or interaction. Seeing if she holds your gaze is one of the best ways to know how much she’s into you.
The Third Tell: Touch
Does she touch you at all? If so, that’s a very clear sign of interest. Even if her touching you consists of “innocent” touching like touching your hands, arms or back, you shouldn’t worry about whether or not she fancies you. Little touches like that might not seem like a lot, but they’re a way that women express interest without coming out and saying it.
The Fourth Tell: Favors
If a woman does things for you, it’s almost certainly because there’s some kind of interest there. This can be something as simple as giving you a ride when your car is broken down or bringing you lunch when you can’t get away from work. It might seem like nothing, but even the smallest gestures are and indicator of interest; doubly so if she’s doing things for you without you asking.
The Fifth Tell: Availability
Is she available when you want to see her? Does she have time to spend with you? What’s your success rate on getting her to go on dates? A woman who isn’t interested will often come up with a number of reasons that she’s unable to see you. A woman who is interested often goes out of her way to make sure that she has time to spend with you. Even shuffling things around — to say nothing of cancelling plans — so that she can see you is a cut-and-dried sign that she fancies you.
Knowing whether or not she’s into you is a basic process of evaluating a few key factors. Once you know what you’re looking for, you’ll wonder why you spent so much time agonizing over whether or not she’s into you.
