How to Attract a Girl Using Social Media

Woman using laptop sitting at dining table, low angle viewIf you’re using social media, you should also be using it to attract girls. Social media is great tool to attract a girl with because it allows you to meet and attract women that you might not even meet otherwise. Like any other forum for meeting and attracting women, however, there are small tweaks that you can make beyond basic skills that are going to help you to level up your batting average. Here are five tips on how to attract a girl using social media.

 Using Your Photos the Right Way

Only post the best photos of yourself. But what is the best? Well if you’re using social media to attract girls you want to have pictures of yourself where you look good, sure. You also want to have pictures that make you look like a high value man. For example, using pictures where you’re surrounded by tons of awesome dudes having an awesome time. Pictures of yourself travelling to new places and doing exciting things are another great way to use your social media pictures to make yourself more attractive to women.

Think Before You Post

Remember that when you post on social media you’re not just posting to your buddies; You’re also posting to girls that you want to go on dates with. One way around this is to create filters for who can and who cannot read what you have posted. Another way is to just be mindful of what you’re posting. I honestly believe that the best policy when you post is to be positive, upbeat, playful and fun. That’s the best way to attract a girl using social media.

Flirting in Public

Should you flirt with girls in public on social media? Sure. But be reserved about it. It’s OK for women to see that you’re interested in other women. It shows them that you’re high value, that you’re selective, that you’re not just settling on the first women that you encounter. However, keep it light, keep it playful and don’t say anything that you don’t want another person to read.

Flirting in Private

It’s generally a good policy to never say anything on social media that you wouldn’t want on the front page of the newspaper. That said, you can be a little more forward and personal when flirting in private. Remember, though, that the whole point of using social media to attract girls is to try and get them to go on a date with you. Don’t use social media as an end to itself. Rather, flirt with her in private to get her to go out with you.

Once you’ve done that, the best thing to do is to use social media to set up the logistics of your date. It’s best to leave any “getting to know you” types of conversation to when the two of you are actually together. Conversation is about way more than the words that you use; It’s also about your tone of voice and body language. All of that goes missing when you are chatting with someone on social media via text.

AJ Harbinger - author of 1132 posts on The Art of Charm

AJ Harbinger is one of the world’s top relationship development experts. His company, The Art of Charm, is a leading training facility for top performers that want to overcome social anxiety, develop social capital and build relationships of the highest quality. Raised by a single father, AJ felt a strong desire to learn about relationships and the elements that make them successful. However, this interest went largely untapped for many years. Following the path set out for him by his family, AJ studied biology in college and went on to pursue a Ph.D. in Cancer Biology at the University of Michigan. It was at this time that he began to feel immense pressure from the cancer lab he worked in and began to explore other outlets for expression. It was at this point that The Art of Charm Podcast was born.

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