The texting game is a part of 21st Century attraction. Still, a lot of men aren’t sure how to play the texting game. Even fewer know how to win it. The good news? Texting is a powerful tool that any man can quickly learn and master to make any girl like you over text. Here’s your quick guide to the texting game and how you can become the champion of it.
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Remind Her Why You Two Had a Good Time
One of the great things about texting is that it eliminates the whole “when is the appropriate time to call her” game. You can pretty much text her whenever. The best way to open a conversation with a woman that you want to start texting with is to recall some awesome detail from the night before. That will remind her that you two had a real connection while also reminding her of some of the fun that the two of your had together.
Flirt Over Text
Flirting over text is a great way to keep the excitement going and keep her interested. Be playful and don’t be afraid to drop an emoticon in here and there. That has the same effect in text form as smiling does in real life — letting her know that you’re keeping things light and playful. You might feel a little silly texting her a smiley face at first, but trust me, it’s the way to go.
Move Toward a Date
One thing that you don’t want to do is just let things hang in the air. On the contrary, you want to be moving forward in your texting toward the end goal — getting her to agree to meet up with you in person. Keep your eyes on the prize as you play the texting game. The true test of whether or not you’ve won is whether or not she wants to go out with you some time. Move things toward that place by reminding her of the things that you have in common and finally by suggesting that you two get together and do one of them some time.
Save Rapport for In Person
Don’t have “getting to know you” type conversations when you’re texting. That can lead to one of the 5 biggest mistakes guys make when texting. Instead, you want to save that for when the two of you are actually together. The reason being, only 10 percent of your communication has to do with the words that you use. The other 90s percent is communicated through body language and your tone of voice. This means that when you’re “getting to know each other” via text, you’re not really getting to know each other at all.
Text for Logistics
Once you’ve made a date, it’s OK to flirt a little. But mostly you want to use the texting game to schedule your date and to take care of logistics. Figure out where you’re meeting, what time, who is picking up whom and other essentials to making sure that your date goes off without a hitch.
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