“Why won’t she text me back?” Every guy asks themselves this at one point or another in their dating career. You want to know why she won’t text back so that you can either get her texting again, or avoid the same mistake in the future, or both. Read on to learn why she won’t text you back and how you can avoid having the dropped text communication problem in the future.
“Why Won’t She Text Me Back?”
There are a number of reasons that she won’t text back. She might actually be busy. She might not be into you enough to text back. You might have misheard her in the dark and loud club. She might not know who is texting her and not have the time to text back if she doesn’t know who you are.
The important thing to know isn’t why she’s isn’t texting you back. It’s knowing…
When to Cut Bait
There’s a simple rule when it comes to women and texting. If you text her on three separate occasions and she doesn’t text back, it’s time to move on. Note that you could send three texts one time and that doesn’t really count. However, if on three totally separate occasions you text her and she doesn’t text back, it’s time for you to delete her number from your phone and move on.
If she doesn’t have time for you, you don’t have time for her.
Texting Her So She’ll Text Back
Of course, part of the problem might be that she liked you out at the club, but you weren’t texting anything good enough to get her interest during the light of day. When you text, you want to keep it light, flirt a little bit and call back to something that happened when you two met that will remind her what a great time she had with you.
From there, you want to move things forward and pretty quickly.
How to Move Things Forward When You Text Her
When you text a woman you want to keep your eyes on the prize. 90 percent of communication is non-verbal, so only 10 percent of what you want to get across is actually getting there when you text. Rather than seeing texting a girl as an end to itself, you need to see texting her as a means to an end. That end is getting her to agree to go on a date.
Quickly move from the banter and flirting into asking her if she wants to get together some time. Be specific. Ask her to go hiking this weekend or check out an art gallery next week. If she shoots down three ideas in a row, guess what? It’s time to stop texting her and move on. At this point, if you’re asking yourself “why won’t she text me back?”, you’re asking the wrong question.
When to Stop Texting
Once you’ve made the date, you can text her to get the logistics squared. After that’s done, it’s time to put down the phone and wait for date time. Remember — 90 percent of what you want to say is going to get lost. Let her want you a little bit and save the good stuff for when you actually go on a date.