Ways to Tell a Girl You Like Her Without Telling Her

You want to tell the special girl in your life that you like her. The best way to tell a girl you like her isn’t by telling her. It’s by doing subtle things that let her know without telling her. Remember, that actions speak much, much louder than words. They also allow you to maintain your non-needy, non-approval seeking posture while communicating to her that you like her, that she’s special, that she brings something into your life that other girls do not. Here are five ways you tell a girl you like her without coming out and telling her.

Pay Attention to Her

If there’s one thing women like from a man they like, it’s attention. Make time for her. Even if all you can spend with her is ten minutes, try and give her that time. Things like swinging by her place on your way to work just to say hi go a long way toward letting her know that you like her. You don’t have to kill yourself here. Just one romantic gesture of attention during the course of a week will speak volumes about how much you like her, without your ever having to say so.

Pick Up the Check

Especially if you know that you make a lot more money than her, you should pick up the check. This is a great way to show rather than tell a girl you like her. After all, you’re not just investing time in her. You’re also investing money in her. But you don’t look at it that way at all. It’s just a matter of wanting to show her a good time. Don’t make a big deal out of it. Just quietly do it and she’ll get the hint that you like her.

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Small Gifts

It’s not about the money that you spend. That’s not how you let her know that you like her. On the contrary, it’s about the thought that you put into the gift that you get her. This can literally be as simple as bringing her a special candy that she likes a lot from the drugstore. Don’t kill yourself trying to find that perfect thing that the girl in your life is going to like more than anything in the world. Just keep it simple. Something that shows you’ve been paying attention to her, that you get her, that you know what she likes and what makes her happy. That’s something that no amount of money can buy.

Listen to Her

Men make this common mistake about the girls in their life: They think that when girls complain that they want you to come up with a solution for them. They don’t. In fact, all they really want most of the time is someone to listen to them vent. So be the person who listens to her vent. Give her space to tell you what has her upset. Repeat back to her what she’s saying and make sure that you understand what it is that she’s telling you. When it comes to showing a girl that you like her, there are few better ways.

Talk About Your Future

Want to really tell a girl you like her without straight out telling her? Talk about your future and include her in it. We don’t mean that you have to start planning your wedding or anything quite so dramatic as that. The point is to merely show her that in a week, two weeks or a month down the road, you have a place for her in your life. This will subtly communicate to the girl that you like your true feelings for her, in a way that just coming out and saying it never will.

AJ Harbinger - author of 1161 posts on The Art of Charm

AJ Harbinger is one of the world’s top relationship development experts. His company, The Art of Charm, is a leading training facility for top performers that want to overcome social anxiety, develop social capital and build relationships of the highest quality. Raised by a single father, AJ felt a strong desire to learn about relationships and the elements that make them successful. However, this interest went largely untapped for many years. Following the path set out for him by his family, AJ studied biology in college and went on to pursue a Ph.D. in Cancer Biology at the University of Michigan. It was at this time that he began to feel immense pressure from the cancer lab he worked in and began to explore other outlets for expression. It was at this point that The Art of Charm Podcast was born.

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