The Easiest Ways to Catch Her Eye

Do you want to catch her eye? Of course you do. In fact, a good way to start the process of attraction is to get her interested in you before you even notice her. But is this possible? It is. The Art of Charm has been working on tips for attracting women for years to create attraction before you even begin talking to a woman. While it takes some practice when you’re getting started, these are habits and behaviors any man can acquire.

Step 1: Appear Confident

Here’s some great news: You don’t have to be confident to appear confident. Here’s some even better news: Appearing confident to others is going to make you more confident over time. So start off with three basics:

  1. Good posture projects confidence while also making you feel confident.
  2. Smiling with your whole face (not just your eyes) makes you appear confident, as well as friendly and approachable.
  3. Maintaining eye contact with others is a serious confidence gesture, one that most men neglect.

While these all sound simple, if you maintain them as regular habits every time you go out, you’re going to start catching women’s eyes. Don’t be surprised that confidence is one of the top tips for attracting women — there is a reason it is so important, so be sure to make it a priority.

Step 2: Dress Right

“Dressing right” isn’t about being the biggest fashion plate at the club. On the contrary, it’s about clothes that fit right and make you feel good about yourself. Take some time and evaluate your wardrobe. What about it do you like? What about it do you not like? Now, armed with the knowledge, head down to the mall and try on some clothes. Get one of the cute sales girls to help you find what fits right. Who knows? You might even walk out of there with a date.

Step 3: Act Social

Before you even talk to her you should be acting social. This can be as simple as talking to the guys you went out with. However, if you’re alone or want to take things up another notch, you can walk around the bar clinking glasses or high fiving people at the bar. Almost no one is going to deny you and it goes a long way toward making you appear to be a highly social, highly confident man — two things that always catch a lady’s eye.

Step 4: Approach Immediately

Don’t hover around waiting for the right moment. The “right moment” is the one that you make for yourself. So when you see her, take a couple seconds (literally), then go right up to her and start talking to her. You can even be totally straightforward if you want. “I saw you standing over here and I really wanted to talk to you.”

The point is to take the initiative, something that most men aren’t willing to do. The very fact that you are is going to set you apart from the rest of the pack. This rounds out some of our tips for attracting women, go ahead and see how they can improving your dating life today.

AJ Harbinger - author of 1162 posts on The Art of Charm

AJ Harbinger is one of the world’s top relationship development experts. His company, The Art of Charm, is a leading training facility for top performers that want to overcome social anxiety, develop social capital and build relationships of the highest quality. Raised by a single father, AJ felt a strong desire to learn about relationships and the elements that make them successful. However, this interest went largely untapped for many years. Following the path set out for him by his family, AJ studied biology in college and went on to pursue a Ph.D. in Cancer Biology at the University of Michigan. It was at this time that he began to feel immense pressure from the cancer lab he worked in and began to explore other outlets for expression. It was at this point that The Art of Charm Podcast was born.

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