Art of Attraction: Getting Her Wild Over You

art of attractionThe Art of Charm teaches the art of attraction and a lot of men want to know how they can use it to make women go crazy for them. One of the things we’re proudest of is that our method is going to turn the tables; rather than you chasing women, they’re going to be chasing after you. It’s not magic. Rather, it’s a simple, straightforward method that any man can learn and use to his advantage. Here’s a little insight into how you can have women going nuts for you.

AAA: Always Assume Attraction

You’re walking down the street and see two girls walking toward you. One whispers to the other and they both giggle. You can take this one of two ways: You can assume that they’re making fun of you or they’re attracted to you. The art of attraction says to always assume attraction.

Why? Because it makes you a more confident man. This can be one of the hardest habits to get into. However, it’s also one of the most powerful ways to project the type of robust confidence that drives women wild. Don’t just start with attraction; Start assuming the best in all situations. It takes time, but once you acquire this habit you’re going to notice a difference in your overall attitude — for the better.

Put Yourself First

Many men make a simple mistake when it comes to women: They put women first. You should always put yourself first. When prioritizing your time, you come first. This means work, career and education come first of anything; After all, this is how you secure your lifestyle. After that, your personal passions, interests and hobbies are next. Once you’ve got enough time for all of that, then you can spend time on women and socializing.

Putting yourself first sends a subtle but clear message. It says that you consider yourself a worthy individual with a lot of value. Fewer things are a better way of communicating confidence than putting yourself first.

Never Seek Approval

Men often think they get in the friend zone by being “too nice.” In fact, the surest way to land in the friend zone is to seek the approval of others. Confidence is, in a sense, having all the approval you need come from within. When you don’t need approval from others you are then freer to give approval and value to others. This is one of the best ways to get women going wild over you; Making them feel more valuable whenever they are in your presence. The first step toward such a dynamic is to stop looking for external validation.

Body Language Basics

Men are often amazed at how much of a difference their body language makes when it comes to the art of attraction. There’s a lot to be said about body language, but I’m going to give you a very simple, basic technique that you can use to level up your social game.

Tonight when you go out, start talking to a woman face to face, then pivot and stand at her side. When you talk to her, turn toward her, then turn away, leaning in to hear what she has to say. This simple technique helps to take pressure of off both of you, while subtly communicating that you’re not seeking approval.

Never Be Afraid to Walk Away

When you go out, you should be walking away from time to time. Basically, once you’ve had a bit of banter and a little more serious conversation, excuse yourself. Say you need to go to the bar to get a drink. Say you need to check in with your friends. Just find a reason, walk away and take a lap around the room. Maybe talk to some more women. This communicates that you’re not too focused on one woman — and if there’s one thing women love, it’s a challenge.

Want to know more ways that you can invert the social paradigm and have her chasing after you rather than the other way around? Check out The Art of Charm Academy. For just one dollar you can learn the simple and effective system that’s easy to learn and has thousands of men leveling up their social game.

AJ Harbinger - author of 1048 posts on The Art of Charm

AJ Harbinger is one of the world’s top relationship development experts. His company, The Art of Charm, is a leading training facility for top performers that want to overcome social anxiety, develop social capital and build relationships of the highest quality. Raised by a single father, AJ felt a strong desire to learn about relationships and the elements that make them successful. However, this interest went largely untapped for many years. Following the path set out for him by his family, AJ studied biology in college and went on to pursue a Ph.D. in Cancer Biology at the University of Michigan. It was at this time that he began to feel immense pressure from the cancer lab he worked in and began to explore other outlets for expression. It was at this point that The Art of Charm Podcast was born.

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