Flirting is something a lot of guys have trouble with. That’s fine. The Art of Charm can teach you how to flirt with the best of them. It’s not the easiest thing in the world to master, but even just a little bit of attention paid to flirting can help you to seriously improve your game every time you head out to a bar or club. Here’s our top flirting tips that can get things going in the right direction for you.
The biggest piece of advice we could give you: smile. Learn how to smile the right way, with your whole face. Don’t be afraid to practice it in the mirror. Here’s how to find your winning smile:
- Think of something really funny.
- Start laughing. Don’t worry if you have to force it a little at first.
- Exaggerate your smile.
- Let the exaggerated smile sink into something more natural.
- When you have a good smile, take a second and remember what it feels like. Mentally “scan” your face.
Follow these top flirting tips and you’ll remember what a truly winning smile looks like. That will help you by leaps and bounds the next time you head out to a bar or club. It shows that you’re fun and it invites her to come up and talk to you.
A lot of guys get off on the wrong foot because they approach a woman and start asking her all kinds of questions. That can make her feel like she’s on a job interview rather than out at the club. Instead, you want to approach her with some funny, witty banter lines that will have her laughing and smiling, relaxing and getting used to being around you.
At the same time, just being the funny, witty guy can be a great way to land yourself in the friend zone. Funny is definitely sexy, but it takes more than that to create meaningful attraction with top-quality women. So our top flirting tips also focus on being a bit challenging. Being challenging can level up the fun, but it also lets her know that you’re not into just any girl: You’re someone with standards. That improves your value in her eyes, as well as makes her feel more valuable.
Finally, the thing that you need to do is be sexy. Do this in a flirty way and your smile is going to help you to get away with saying things you wouldn’t otherwise. You’re letting her know that you’re not just interested in flirting, chatting and being friends — that you want her to see you sexually.
The Art of Charm has a ton of articles on top flirting tips with the best of them. Read through our section on flirting and attraction and become a master of the game.