About This Episode
How do you take a conversation to the next level and create real connection? In this episode of The Art of Charm podcast, AJ and Johnny explain 8 fundamental steps to develop a relationship beyond just a brief interaction with a stranger on the train, scoring a number at a bar, or a handshake at a business conference. Learn the social cues, the mental tricks, and the right body language to tee up a compelling conversation.
The 8 Steps
Take from the following article – 8 Insanely Effective Ways to Connect with Anyone You Meet
- PAY ATTENTION – It’s simple but so easy to overlook.
*What are a few ways for you to lock into a conversation?
- SEEK FEEDBACK – From trusted friends to tell you the truth on what you can improve on.
*Can you think of someone who you can talk to about this? Call them tonight!
- ASK QUESTIONS – What’s everyone’s favorite topic? Encourage people to talk about themselves and share their experiences with you to create understanding.
*How can you show someone your genuine interest in who they are?
- REMEMBER YOUR NAME – What’s the best way to remember someone’s name and how can you use these tools during your next night out?
- DON’T PRETEND YOU KNOW EVERYTHING – It’s the biggest turn-off of them all!
*In fact, what’s one of the best ways to create a seamless and empathetic connection to turn someone one and create a connect?
- CARE ABOUT OTHERS about others! Show appreciation for the people around you and let that bleed over into all areas of your life.
*How can you create grateful positivity to spread over into your environment?
- SEE A ROOM FULL OF FRIENDS – Visualize that at your next outing — treat no one like a stranger.
*What’s one of the reactions that we have by becoming uncomfortable in a new environment?
**REMEMBER: This takes practice! If you expect everyone to treat you like a friend, you might set too high of an expectation, so take it in stride.
- CONNECT IN PERSON. As much as we might want to, we can’t truly connect online! But it’s easy to be afraid of the risk and rejection of meeting in person.
*In what ways can you pivot your body language to show true interest to someone you’re meeting in person?
This was a big episode, but don’t get overwhelmed! Focus on finding that one genuine friend and go from there. And remember: Humans are naturally bad at active listening, so don’t beat yourself up if you find yourself struggling along the way.
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Resources
Articles from this episode!
8 Insanely Effective Ways to Connect with Anyone You Meet – “Lifehack”
How to Make Friends, According to Science – “The Atlantic”
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