Be More Confident, Social & Overcome Fear of Rejection


The other day I watched a video of a young man trying to get better with his approaches. He hooked himself up with a hidden camera and walked up to random people, introducing himself and attempted to amuse them. The problem that I had with this video is that after about 30 some failed attempts, he didn’t change anything about his approach. So what was the point?


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Where Is Your Swagger?


Swagger is an intriguing word. It is something all men want yet have trouble defining. Whenever you look up the definition of swagger, you can find two meanings of the word; one that talks about carrying yourself in a confident manner while the other is about carrying yourself in a loud, arrogant and boastful manner.


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Why Women Don’t Understand What Men Say


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“Men are simple? You really think men are simple?” she asked me again, in a voice filled with skeptical curiosity. She obviously didn’t agree with me, or thought I was deluded. I had just met her at a small get-together the night before. She was one of my male friend’s dates, and we’d run into each other again the next … Read More


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The Secret To Building Rapport


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Think of Rapport like a empty pot in the middle of two people, and every time one person opens up about themselves, those feelings go in the pot. If one person adds too much into the pot the other one can become nervous and start to pull away. This pot needs to be filled equally on both sides for everyone in the interaction … Read More


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The Fake Out


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It’s the dreaded “flake” or “flake-out.” It happens to many folks, enough that we know the end of the story pretty much from the start. She gives you her number, but then doesn’t answer your call, or maybe you do get a date set up, but then she cancels at the last minute.  “She gave me her number,” he says.


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Time For Action


Knowledge is a means to application. Reading books can give you nothing but theory. Watching videos can give you nothing but theory. Until you take those theories out and start applying them, you have nothing but words in your head.


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High Risk, High Reward


It’s the fourth quarter. You are on the 40 yard line, and a touch down wins the game. You have line men coming at you when you let it rip down the field. When it works, it is the biggest victory of them all and when it fails, you know you gave it your all. When you sac up and … Read More


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