The Secret To Building Rapport


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Think of Rapport like a empty pot in the middle of two people, and every time one person opens up about themselves, those feelings go in the pot. If one person adds too much into the pot the other one can become nervous and start to pull away. This pot needs to be filled equally on both sides for everyone in the interaction … Read More


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The Fake Out


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It’s the dreaded “flake” or “flake-out.” It happens to many folks, enough that we know the end of the story pretty much from the start. She gives you her number, but then doesn’t answer your call, or maybe you do get a date set up, but then she cancels at the last minute.  “She gave me her number,” he says.


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Time For Action


Knowledge is a means to application. Reading books can give you nothing but theory. Watching videos can give you nothing but theory. Until you take those theories out and start applying them, you have nothing but words in your head.


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High Risk, High Reward


It’s the fourth quarter. You are on the 40 yard line, and a touch down wins the game. You have line men coming at you when you let it rip down the field. When it works, it is the biggest victory of them all and when it fails, you know you gave it your all. When you sac up and … Read More


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No One is Everyone’s Cup of Tea


I remember one particular day in seventh grade… I was rattling on and on to my dad yet again, gossiping about this person and that person that he didn’t know and bless his heart, probably didn’t care about at all. I was all, “Blah blah blah, she likes him but he doesn’t like her, which doesn’t make sense because she’s … Read More


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Building Strong Inner Confidence


We have been our own worst critic since the dawn of time. We can be down right ruthless with ourselves. If we talked to others the way we talk to ourselves, we would push away a lot people from our lives. Even when it comes to our looks we can be critical. From the bump on our nose to the … Read More


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How To Flirt With Women


When it comes to meeting and charming women, you’ll get nowhere without good conversation. Banter and flirting are the backbone of seduction, and your words can unlock new opportunities and jump start a relationship. Just as easily, however, saying the wrong things can lead to disaster. The tools you need for the best banter and flirting have been covered extensively … Read More


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Seeing Is Not Believing


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Seeing is not believing. Believing is seeing. How many of you understand this statement? Basically you will not be able to see signs of attraction because you do not believe she is sending them. How could you see them if they are not there? Is it in your reality that she could be attracted to you? If it is you … Read More


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Open Up And Say Ahhh


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The easiest way to get what you want is to ask for it. We’ve talked here immensely about asking for what you want and how high value people are comfortable doing so. They are fine whether they get what they want or not. They would rather leave an interaction knowing that they went for what they wanted than wondering, “What … Read More


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