Knowing how to tell an older woman you want her means you have to leverage your charm and play towards your strengths.
When it comes to dating older women, guys think they’re at a disadvantage. Women tend to like older guys. So the idea of going for an older woman can seem daunting – if not futile.
But being a younger guy means you’ve got a bunch of things going for you that you may not realize. Once you know the benefits that go along with being younger than her, you’ll be able to take advantage of them.
Knowing how to charm a woman who’s older than you begins with keeping the following points in mind:
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Benefits of Being Younger
The initial phase in how to charm a woman is always the same. Without getting too much into detail, the first step in knowing how to tell an older woman you want her is to get her interested and curious about you by being fun and playful.
Johnny, one of the co-founders and lead instructors at AoC, says you should have the mentality of a little kid when first meeting a woman. Just look to shake things up, have a good time, and don’t take anything too seriously (i.e. banter).
Being younger, you’re already going to be more in touch with this fun, playful side than most of the other guys she meets. There’s a sort of vibrant energy that comes with youth which many people lose over the years. As people age, they tend to become more jaded.
No matter your age, you are more connected with that “boyish charm” than the older guys that flirt with her. You automatically have a higher energy level than the guys she’s used to. Emphasize this (keep up a fun, positive attitude) as it will be a refreshing change of pace for her.
How to Avoid Being Too Playful
Women prefer older guys because they have a better idea of who they are and what they want. That attractive for women. But older women are especially interested in that kind of guy because they’re in the same boat. Older women know what they want and are not looking to play games.
Youthful energy can be refreshing. But you’ve got to combine it with a strong sense of confidence and purpose. Just by being younger she probably thinks you don’t really know what you want or what you’re doing. You need to show her right away that you’re not playing games and are a serious sexual option for her. That kind of self-confidence can be even more attractive when coming from such a young guy.
One of the best ways we know how to tell an older woman you want her is to show this is through eye contact. Strong, steady eye contact is the most effective way to show confidence and that you know what you’re doing. You can ramp up the intensity and sexual tension by entertaining thoughts of the two of you getting physical while maintaining eye contact. This will help you project a sexual vibe and she’ll know to take you seriously.
How to Tell an Older Woman You Want Her—Fulfill Her Fantasy
Older women embrace the thought of being “a cougar”. Getting that kind of attention from a younger guy is an empowering feeling that can make a woman feel sexy. Just by approaching with the intention of charming her you’re giving her ego a nice little boost and making her feel good.
Not only that, but it’s very likely that at some point she’s fantasized about being with a younger guy. Part of her will be curious to see if you can be that guy who fulfills this sexual fantasy for her.
Want to Effortlessly Attract the Girls You Want to Date?
Let’s face it, you’re killing it in your career, but when it comes to charming the socks off a stunning woman, do you feel like you’re just winging it? Imagine this: you walk up to her, hearts racing, palms a bit sweaty, but this time, you’re armed with more than just good looks and ambition.
What if I told you that with the right tweaks to what you’re already doing, you’ll tap into your natural charm? No more awkward silences or cringey small talk. We’re talking electrifying conversations that spark a real connection, making her eyes light up with excitement.
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