Whether you have a girlfriend or just plan to have one in the future, it’s key that you know how to keep your girlfriend interested. Keeping your girlfriend interested is part of keeping your relationship healthy. Make no mistake about it — the “game” never ends. It’s always going to go on and you’re always going to have to try and keep the relationship fresh. The good news is that this isn’t a chore. On the contrary, it’s a heck of a lot of fun. Here’s how to keep your girlfriend interested and keep your relationship fun, fresh and exciting for the both of you.
Go On Adventures Together
Going on adventures together helps to strengthen a relationship in its early stages. It also helps to keep your girlfriend interested after time goes on. Go camping together, try new things, take a class together, explore the city that you both live in like a tourist. There are literally endless possibilities when it comes to going on adventures together. If you two commit to keeping things fresh, you’ll both be coming up with things to do that will help with how to keep your girlfriend interested.
Give Her Room to Want You
Some cliches make for great advice. “Absence makes the heart grow fonder” is one of them. You need to give your girlfriend room to want you. This means that if you want to keep her interested that you can’t be around her all the time. You have to have a little bit of space and difference that’s going to make sure that she stays interested. That little bit of space can go a long way — it can make all the difference in the world between her losing interest and her chasing you all over.
Take Staycations Together
Actual vacations fall under the rubric of “going on adventures.” Another thing that you might do to keep your girlfriend interested is taking a staycation together. What’s that? Hitting up a super fancy hotel together and staying there for a night or three. Make an event of it. You put on a suit, she puts on a dress, you two eat together in the hotel restaurant, drink in the hotel bar and enjoy everything that’s awesome about going away from home with none of the muss and fuss of actually traveling. A staycation can literally save your relationship. I’ve seen this happen before.
Try New Stuff in Bed
Sex can get old when you’re in a long-term relationship. This is just a fact of life that everyone — men and women — have to deal with. Want to keep things fresh with your girlfriend? Try new things. Talk about your fantasies, things that you want to try, things that she wants to try. It gives you both an opportunity to spice things up, as they say and keep her interested.
Worried about sharing your fantasies with your girlfriend? Don’t be. Chances are she has a pretty good idea of what men are interested in. We live in a sexually liberated age and women are familiar with where the male mind goes. Share with her and be willing to compromise. That will keep her interested.
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AJ Harbinger is one of the world’s top relationship development experts. His company, The Art of Charm, is a leading training facility for top performers that want to overcome social anxiety, develop social capital and build relationships of the highest quality.
Raised by a single father, AJ felt a strong desire to learn about relationships and the elements that make them successful. However, this interest went largely untapped for many years. Following the path set out for him by his family, AJ studied biology in college and went on to pursue a Ph.D. in Cancer Biology at the University of Michigan. It was at this time that he began to feel immense pressure from the cancer lab he worked in and began to explore other outlets for expression. It was at this point that The Art of Charm Podcast was born.
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