The sun is out and the waves are hot. Beach season is rapidly approaching and you’ve been hitting the gym to look your best. Your problem? You’re not sure how to deal with flirting with girls at the beach. We get it. It can be difficult to know how to apply your skills to the beach environment. So we put together five tips to help you to hone your game specifically for flirting with girls at the beach.
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How to Approach a Girl at the Beach: Don’t Wait More Than 2 Seconds
When you’re at a place like the beach, it’s more crucial than ever to approach immediately. You want to approach immediately and confidently. What you don’t want to be is the guy who keeps scoping her out from afar without approaching. Sure, it’s not a bar or a club, but approaching and flirting with girls on the beach is no different than approaching them on the street or any other public place. As soon as you notice her, she’s definitely noticed you, so approach confidently and immediately to have the best introduction possible.
A Smile Is Your Best Friend
You always want to keep things light when you first approach. The best way to do that is with a great smile on your whole face, not just your mouth. Keeping things light is essential, especially at a place like the beach where coming on too strong can kill your whole game. And while we’re on the subject of game killers…
Avoid Physical Compliments
We get that the beach is filled with gorgeous women showing what they’ve got. But physical compliments are always best avoided when flirting with girls, especially when you’re hanging out at the beach. She already knows that you’re attracted to her — that’s why you went up to her in the first place. So if you give her a compliment (which you should do) do it after you’ve been chatting and flirting with her a bit and make it something about her personality: She’s funny, she’s charming, she seems adventurous. Whatever. Women want to know that you’re interested in who they are as a person, not just what they look like.
Get Her Number Fast
It’s good to go for the number sooner rather than later. One of the differences between a beach and a bar is that you’re not going to spend a lot of time circling around, hanging out with her, doing other stuff, then hanging out with her again. So go for her number once you reach a high point in the interaction. Let her know that you want to get together sometime, hand her your phone, ready to accept her number and tell her that you need her number to get in touch.
Text Her Right Away
One of the best things about the age of texting is that it removes the whole awkward question of when to call her. Text her right away. Something memorable like “I’m AJ, the guy in the Speedos ;-D” or “I’m AJ, the guy with the massive guns ;-D”
Emoticons can be especially helpful to let her know that you’re being playful and flirting with her.
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