The Best Places to Meet Girls

What’s the best place to meet girls? We get asked that question all the time at The Art of Charm. And while it’s true that there’s no one best place to meet girls, there are some places that are better than others. For men who are into getting out there and making the most out of their night, here’s a list of five places that we love going to meet women.

Bars / Clubs

Obvious, of course, but for a reason: This really is one of the best places to meet girls. There are tons of girls here and a lot of them are out there looking for men to meet. That’s great. It’s also a great place to meet women who have shared interests with you, especially if you like going out to bars and clubs for their own sake. But you probably already know that bars and clubs are a great place to meet girls. Where else is there?

Coffee Shops

The Art of Charm likes to call coffee shops “the thinking man’s bar.” There are tons of women here and while they’re not necessarily there to meet guys, they definitely won’t mind if a charming man such as yourself approaches them. You can talk to women while you stand in line to get your coffee, the girl at the table next to you or the woman across the room. The same basic social skills that you would use at a bar apply here.

Book Stores

Book stores is arguably the best place to meet girls. What’s more, they have the built-in thing for you to talk about: Books. You can approach a woman and ask her to pick three books that have meant a lot to her; one from her childhood, one from her teen years and another from adulthood. People love talking about themselves, so don’t be afraid that she’s not going to be interested. How many women make lists of the things that they like on social media? The same basic concept is there: Talk about yourself, because I’m interested.

Arts Nights

Pretty much every city of any size has an arts night at this point. You go to an area of town, walk around, check out what the local arts community is doing and hopefully meet some girls. These are somewhere between a coffee shop and a bar. Women are going out and if they’re there alone or with other women, they’re probably down to meet some guys. You can chat them up either by appreciating the local art or taking a light and playful swipe at some of the weirder stuff there. Either way, there are usually tons of people there so don’t be afraid to chat girls up.

Walking Down the Street

Why wait for a particular situation to meet women? Why not talk to them wherever you meet them? The Art of Charm is really into the idea that the best place to meet women is wherever you happen to find yourself right now. So make it happen wherever you might be.

AJ Harbinger - author of 1126 posts on The Art of Charm

AJ Harbinger is one of the world’s top relationship development experts. His company, The Art of Charm, is a leading training facility for top performers that want to overcome social anxiety, develop social capital and build relationships of the highest quality. Raised by a single father, AJ felt a strong desire to learn about relationships and the elements that make them successful. However, this interest went largely untapped for many years. Following the path set out for him by his family, AJ studied biology in college and went on to pursue a Ph.D. in Cancer Biology at the University of Michigan. It was at this time that he began to feel immense pressure from the cancer lab he worked in and began to explore other outlets for expression. It was at this point that The Art of Charm Podcast was born.

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