What’s the best place to meet girls? We get asked that question all the time at The Art of Charm. And while it’s true that there’s no one best place to meet girls, there are some places that are better than others. For men who are into getting out there and making the most out of their night, here’s a list of five places that we love going to meet women.
Bars / Clubs
Obvious, of course, but for a reason: This really is one of the best places to meet girls. There are tons of girls here and a lot of them are out there looking for men to meet. That’s great. It’s also a great place to meet women who have shared interests with you, especially if you like going out to bars and clubs for their own sake. But you probably already know that bars and clubs are a great place to meet girls. Where else is there?
The Art of Charm likes to call coffee shops “the thinking man’s bar.” There are tons of women here and while they’re not necessarily there to meet guys, they definitely won’t mind if a charming man such as yourself approaches them. You can talk to women while you stand in line to get your coffee, the girl at the table next to you or the woman across the room. The same basic social skills that you would use at a bar apply here.
Book stores is arguably the best place to meet girls. What’s more, they have the built-in thing for you to talk about: Books. You can approach a woman and ask her to pick three books that have meant a lot to her; one from her childhood, one from her teen years and another from adulthood. People love talking about themselves, so don’t be afraid that she’s not going to be interested. How many women make lists of the things that they like on social media? The same basic concept is there: Talk about yourself, because I’m interested.
Pretty much every city of any size has an arts night at this point. You go to an area of town, walk around, check out what the local arts community is doing and hopefully meet some girls. These are somewhere between a coffee shop and a bar. Women are going out and if they’re there alone or with other women, they’re probably down to meet some guys. You can chat them up either by appreciating the local art or taking a light and playful swipe at some of the weirder stuff there. Either way, there are usually tons of people there so don’t be afraid to chat girls up.
Walking Down the Street
Why wait for a particular situation to meet women? Why not talk to them wherever you meet them? The Art of Charm is really into the idea that the best place to meet women is wherever you happen to find yourself right now. So make it happen wherever you might be.