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Learn why Body Language is the most important tool in your game, and how you can make it tighter.

Art of Charm Toolbox | Body Language (Episode 3)

Art of Charm Toolbox | Body Language (Episode 3)

Learn why body language is the most important tool in your game, and how you can make it tighter.

“Amateurs don’t quit until they get it right. Professionals don’t quit until they know they can’t get it wrong.” -Anonymous

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Your body language is communicating from the second you walk in the door. No great pickup line will ever overcome bad body language.

Practice body language in private and in the club; act comfortable to feel comfortable. Try it, even though you feel silly at first.

Conversations are fluid; get used to silence. Be comfortable, not fidgety.

Keep hands below your waist.

Don’t be tense, keep your chin up, and don’t clench your jaw.

Be close enough to escalate physically; talk over your own shoulder, and be non-threatening.

Don’t be afraid of an audience.

Act relaxed and sit relaxed — just like you’re at home with your friends.

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AJ Harbinger
AJ Harbinger is one of the world’s top relationship development experts. His company, The Art of Charm, is a leading training facility for top performers that want to overcome social anxiety, develop social capital and build relationships of the highest quality. Raised by a single father, AJ felt a strong desire to learn about relationships and the elements that make them successful. However, this interest went largely untapped for many years. Following the path set out for him by his family, AJ studied biology in college and went on to pursue a Ph.D. in Cancer Biology at the University of Michigan. It was at this time that he began to feel immense pressure from the cancer lab he worked in and began to explore other outlets for expression. It was at this point that The Art of Charm Podcast was born.
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AJ Harbinger is one of the world’s top relationship development experts. His company, The Art of Charm, is a leading training facility for top performers that want to overcome social anxiety, develop social capital and build relationships of the highest quality. Raised by a single father, AJ felt a strong desire to learn about relationships and the elements that make them successful. However, this interest went largely untapped for many years. Following the path set out for him by his family, AJ studied biology in college and went on to pursue a Ph.D. in Cancer Biology at the University of Michigan. It was at this time that he began to feel immense pressure from the cancer lab he worked in and began to explore other outlets for expression. It was at this point that The Art of Charm Podcast was born.
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