Athol Kay: Married Man Sex Life (Episode #239)

“Life is a marathon not a sprint.” -Probably Your Dad

Being the alpha or beta is a complicated issue, especially because a single person can be both. In a couple’s relationship there must be a balance between these two to maintain a healthy relationship.

Athol Kay, from is an author with numerous books on relationships and skill sets related to behavioral health, sociology, self-help and sexuality; talks about numerous topics that impact a marriage.

In another “instant classic” episode, we cover:

  • Why marriage therapy has failed couples and will continue to do so
  • Why focusing on ‘better communication’ doesn’t work
  • What Alpha Male and Beta Male REALLY mean in the context of YOUR relationship (hint: you are NOT alpha [nor beta]!)
  • The roles brain chemicals such as oxytocin, dopamine and testosterone play in your relationship
  • What it means when a woman says “I love you but I’m not in love with you”
  • Why it’s your job to lead, ALWAYS (and WHY)
  • What Newton’s Laws of Motion have to do with your sex life
  • How to consistently create attraction between you and your wife/girlfriend and why this is crucial to survival
  • And tips to be a supportive leader for your significant other

While handling the structure of your relationship, make sure that you are a gentle leader with consistency and masculine behavior. There’s a balance that needs to be maintained between dominating and being submissive and this episode will give you an in-depth look at that, and more.

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What I could tell you about Athol is that he has a diverse educational and professional background, including sociology, religious studies, nursing, behavioral health. He has a self-taught volume of knowledge about evolutionary psychology, sexuality, relationships, self-help and game. He has written three books and writes the cutting edge Married Man Sex Life blog.

What I would like to tell you though, is while he’s a heavy duty theory guy, he’s always looking for it to work in reality. It has to be practical to him. This is what makes him a great match for The Art of Charm Podcast.

You might (you WILL) also like:

-The Art of Charm Toolbox

-Episode #145: Dr Robert Glover, No More Mr. Nice Guy

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Jordan Harbinger - author of 898 posts on The Art of Charm

Jordan Harbinger has spent several years abroad in Europe and the developing world, including South America, Eastern Europe, and the Middle East, and speaks several languages. He has also worked for various governments and NGOs overseas, traveled through war zones, and been kidnapped -- twice. He’ll tell you the only reason he’s still alive and kicking is because of his ability to talk his way into (and out of) just about any type of situation. Here at The Art of Charm, Jordan shares that experience, and the system borne as a result, with students and clients.

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