AoC Value Toolbox | Becoming High Value (Episode 694)

Your heroes and role models are probably what most would consider high value people. Listen to this episode of The Art of Charm to learn how to soar to their inspirational ranks rather than sinking to the selfish temptations of low value living.

The Cheat Sheet:

  • Discover why high value people who give get more from their relationships than low value people who only know how to take.
  • Understand why showing a little genuine attention, appreciation, and acceptance to someone can have a giant impact.
  • See why the low value people in your life are more likely to drag you down with them than you are of pulling them up.
  • Learn how to better filter high value people into your life and filter out low value people.
  • Find out what a high value person gets from taking on responsibility that the low value person loses by trying to wiggle out of it.
  • And so much more…


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In last week’s value toolbox episode (check it out here), we dug into the typical behaviors of low value people, learned how to make sure we’re not displaying these behaviors ourselves, and touched on why we shouldn’t expect people stuck in the unexamined rut of low value behavior to make any dramatic changes for the better until they can admit they have a problem.

This time around, we reveal the important stuff: the high value behaviors we can identify and cultivate in ourselves, how tiny changes in the ways we reach out to and interact with others can make big differences, why surrounding ourselves with low value people will bring us down long before we can bring them up, and lots more. Please enjoy!

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AJ Harbinger - author of 373 posts on The Art of Charm

AJ Harbinger is one of the world’s top relationship development experts. His company, The Art of Charm, is a leading training facility for top performers that want to overcome social anxiety, develop social capital and build relationships of the highest quality. Raised by a single father, AJ felt a strong desire to learn about relationships and the elements that make them successful. However, this interest went largely untapped for many years. Following the path set out for him by his family, AJ studied biology in college and went on to pursue a Ph.D. in Cancer Biology at the University of Michigan. It was at this time that he began to feel immense pressure from the cancer lab he worked in and began to explore other outlets for expression. It was at this point that The Art of Charm Podcast was born.

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