AJ Harbinger

“Your network is your net worth”

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AJ Harbinger is one of the world’s top relationship development experts. His company, The Art of Charm, is a leading training facility for top performers that want to overcome social anxiety, develop social capital and build relationships of the highest quality.

Raised by a single father, AJ felt a strong desire to learn about relationships and the elements that make them successful. However, this interest went largely untapped for many years. Following the path set out for him by his family, AJ studied biology in college and went on to pursue a Ph.D. in Cancer Biology at the University of Michigan. It was at this time that he began to feel immense pressure from the cancer lab he worked in and began to explore other outlets for expression. It was at this point that The Art of Charm Podcast was born.

The Art of Charm Podcast would go on to become one of the largest and most successful lifestyle podcasts in the world. What started out as two graduate students conversing and laughing in a basement in Ann Arbor has turned into a top rated podcast and highly sought after coaching business. After seeing an opportunity to grow The Art of Charm, AJ made the difficult decision to leave the laboratory and graduate school and take a risky leap into the world of entrepreneurship.

Today, AJ and his co-founders teach people from all over the world how to create, develop, and maintain top business and personal relationships. It is often said that the best learning can be found in teaching a subject – for AJ, it was in coaching others towards success, that he was able to rekindle his own confidence and passion. The love of science and the desire to understand relationships at an elemental level had stopped being separate paths and interests for AJ and now merged into a single focus.

Men have traveled from over 50 countries to attend Bootcamp. Each week at their headquarters in Los Angeles these men discover how to be the best version of themselves.  AJ’s mantra is “your network is your net worth” — and this value is what he develops in each of his students.

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Jacqueline Peros, Developing Your Career and Image (Episode #98)


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Matthew Hussey, Becoming Unshakable (Episode #96)


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Episode #88 and 89: Bryan Bayer, Authentic Man Program


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Steve Pavlina, Personal Development [part 1] (Episode #79)


Steve Pavlina Individual

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Episode #72: Adam Lyons, Naturally Generate Attraction


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Adam Lyons from AttractionExplained.com stops by to give us his insight on breaking rapport and generating attraction naturally. Check out Attraction Explained Check out The Art of Charm Download audio file Show Notes: PUP # 72 Adam Lyons from Attractionexplained.com joins Jordan and AJ to talk about social values, breaking rapport, and generating attraction. Jordan starts off the conversation by … Read More


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