It happens in the best of relationships: Eventually, one or both parties start getting a little bored. A lot of times, this can be the end of a relationship. It doesn’t have to be, however. Getting bored in relationship life doesn’t mean that it’s time to end things. It just means that it’s time for you to find ways for you and your girl to stop being bored. In that spirit, here are five things that can help you to spice things up when you or your lady start getting bored in relationship life. And if the relationship is already over, keep these in mind if you’re trying to win her back.
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Take Her Out on a Date
Maybe the reason that you two are getting bored in your relationship is that you’ve settled into too much of a routine. Things are a little too samey-samey. There’s an easy way to chase that kind of boredom out of your relationship: Take her on a date. We don’t mean a night of dinner and a movie. Pretend that you’re trying to woo this woman back into your life again, because in effect you are. Take her out on a date that will really wow her and see some of the life go back into your relationship.
Role Play
Maybe things have gotten a little stale in the bedroom and you want to spice things up so you’ll both be less bored in relationship tedium. There’s a really quick way to do that: You can each become someone else. Talk about your deepest fantasies together, then find ways to play them out. There are plenty of resources out there for you and your girlfriend to read about how you can bring sexual role playing into your relationship and get rid of some of the boredom.
Staycation Together
Here’s a way to change things up, bring some fresh air into your relationship and get rid of some of the boredom: Go on a staycation together. Rent a motel room in your town and have a little time away from your house. Sometimes all a relationship needs is a little change of scenery to clean out the cobwebs and bring a little light in that will chase the boredom away. Give it a shot. Your girl will love it and it’s a bit like being a kid again, except with the bank account of an adult.
Make Her Laugh, Make Her Smile
Women love a man who can make them laugh. Even more than than, they love a man who can really make them smile from the depths of their being. If you can get her laughing again in the same way that you did when the two of you first started dating, you’re going to be making a major stride toward getting rid of the “bored in relationship” pattern. If you can get her to smile, with that rosy glow that shows real happiness, that’s when you’ve got more than just a foot in the door toward getting the boredom out of both of your lives.
Small Favors Make a Big Difference
Small favors can remind her why she liked you in the first place. Think things like bringing her that little thing that she absolutely loves that only you know about. Or maybe even doing the dishes before she even gets home from work, a backrub before bed or cooking her dinner. It’s the little things that can make a big difference in a relationship.
