So the first date went well and you know what? That’s great. But a first date alone is just the beginning. Even if it’s a good or a great beginning, you need to follow up and now blow it on the second date. So how do you make sure that you do that? Follow these easy 2nd date rules and you’ll be on to date number three like a pro.
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Pick Something New and Exciting
It’s a pretty well-established fact: People like novelty. Just because mini golf or hiking worked great last time doesn’t mean it will this time. Sure, you can repeat the same date again later on down the road. But when it comes to your second date, do something new. And while we’re on the subject of “something new…”
The Dinner / Movie Ban Is Still in Effect
You cannot take your date out for your second date to dinner and a movie. Why not? Because you two are still getting to know each other. And how are you supposed to do that at a movie? What’s more, at this early stage, dinner can still feel a bit like a job interview. So when choosing your second date location, avoid the dinner / movie crutch. However…
Meet Up for Drinks or Coffee Before
If you’re going on a second date with a woman, there’s a good chance you two aren’t totally awkward around each other. And since you’re also still trying to get to know one another, why not include a little bit of time expressly for that purpose? Hit up a happy hour and grab some cheap drinks, or sit outside of a coffee shop and have a chat before you head off to the main part of the date. Remember to schedule this so you spend no more than an hour chatting at the bar, as it can slow things down.
Make It a Surprise
One way to add a little bit of excitement to the second date is to make where your ultimate destination is a surprise. Note that this is a gambit; She might very well not be into what you pick. Rather than worrying about this, we suggest that you just take pains to select something you know she’ll want to do. Plan ahead. Listen to what she’s into on the first date and surprise her by taking her to some mundane thing she mentioned on the second date. Not only will she love the surprise, she’ll be impressed that you were paying attention.
Make It Memorable
Making it memorable is always a good tip for a date. However, the second date is very crucial. This is where she decides if she wants a third date and a third date is generally where things start happening. So bring your A-game. Try and find something to wow her, even if it’s just driving by a cool old building and knowing a lot about the history or bringing her to the best cocktail bar in the city. You want her to come away from your second date with something she’s not going to forget by Monday.
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