Attract, connect and build desire
In this section, we break down the science and art of flirting effectively and creating attraction. From enhancing your overall persona to mastering the micro-details of creating attraction, these articles will give you new insight into sexual tension, curiosity, desire and conversation.
Guys are often curious to know how to flirt with a woman without coming across as sleazy or creepy. To help, here are some examples of what a makes a guy creepy when he talks to a woman – and what you can do instead. Follow these tips on how to talk to women and you’ll be able to make … Read More
Ah, how to be authentic. Authenticity is one of those qualities that has become so desirable, so sought after, that it has been reduced — just like generosity and gratitude — to a meaningless cliché. And yet everything we teach at The Art of Charm, from storytelling to approaching to confronting limiting beliefs, seems to come back to the core … Read More
You know what women find sexy? Among other things, great fathers. Jordan recently did a podcast with two of our bootcamp alums — both of them single dads — to discuss how the program made them a better man, a better father and a more attractive prospect to women. It was a fascinating look at single dads and dating. Of … Read More
When you’re going on a first date, you’ve got unlimited options for dates, and no shortage of bad first date ideas. What’s most important when you’re heading on a first date is some kind of activity both of you enjoy. I generally advise guys to plan activity dates for two simple reasons: They allow you two to get to know … Read More
Nothing is more stressful than gift shopping during the holidays. Buying a great gift for a girl can be difficult and frustrating, and holiday wish lists are usually full of high-priced, generic items that never quite deliver. More often than not, we’re left choosing between a Victoria’s Secret gift card and another J. Crew scarf as Christmas gets closer and … Read More
“To our knowledge this is the first research to demonstrate a negative effect of male happiness displays on male attractiveness.” – From Happy Guys Finish Last: The Impact of Emotion Expression on Sexual Attraction Is smiling attractive? In 2011 a sexual attraction study published by psychologists at the University of British Columbia showed that men were perceived as less sexually … Read More
Talking to a girl is difficult enough without having to deal with the complexities of follow-up, and a lot of guys make parallel mistakes when it comes to getting a girl’s phone number: On the one hand, there’s the guy who has a great time with a girl out at a bar or club, but is too timid to get … Read More
Reading body language gets you inside information into how a woman is feeling. And this is information can be incredibly useful during the course of the conversation. It can tell you for example, whether she’s interested and you should move things forward, or she’s disinterested and you should slow things down. For a basic understanding of how to read a … Read More
Basically every guy wants to know how to impress girls. While the answer varies from one girl to another, there are some commonalities that work in general. What’s more, a lot of the stuff that you’re going to do when you go out and try to meet women is just common sense. Here’s a quick intro guide to how you … Read More
The Biggest Do’s and Don’ts of Flirting through Text A lot of guys aren’t sure how to flirt over text. Fortunately, The Art of Charm has spent many, many hours analyzing and studying the art of flirting through text. What are the best ways to flirt over text and make the most out of it? It’s actually a lot easier … Read More