How to know if a girl loves you? It’s actually really easy. You just have to know what the signs are. Women who are in love behave in a certain way. Once you know the right things to look for, you’ll be amazed that you never noticed them before. In fact, you might look back and slap yourself on the forehead when you realize how many girls were in love with you before. Read on for the definitive guide on how to know if someone loves you secretly.
How to Tell She Loves You
Her Friends Know All About You
When a girl loves you, her friends know all about you. In fact, she probably goes on and on about you more than they even want to hear about. Still, they’re going to be happy for her that she’s in love. They’re also going to know all kinds of details about you, both things that are going on between you and the girl who is in love with you, as well as other personal details that no second-degree acquaintance would ever know. Examples include your favorite foods, stories about things that happened to you at work and basically anything else that a woman who is in love with you would notice and think is important, even if no one else did.
She Chases After You
The Art of Charm is all about teaching you how to get girls to chase after you. One way to get a girl to chase after you? Get her to fall in love. When a woman falls in love with a man, few things are going to keep her from getting what she wants. Women are very purpose-driven and resilient in this regard. If she’s making it known that you’re the man that she wants, both in word and in deed, it’s a pretty clear method of how to know if she loves you. Women are generally not so forward in chasing after men that they aren’t in love with.
She Wants More of Your Time
The Saturday night date isn’t enough anymore. She wants more and more of your time. Maybe she wants to come by after work to make you dinner. Maybe she wants to meet for coffee during your lunch break. The specifics don’t really matter. The point is this: If the girl is always looking for more and more of your time, this can be a sign that she’s in love with you or on her way there. After all, if she were only casually interested, she wouldn’t feel the need to go for more and more of your time.
She Does Lots of Little Things For You
Remember: People, women or otherwise, generally don’t go out of their way to do tons of small favors for just anyone. If your girl is doing a lot of little things for you, this is a sign that you’re always on her mind, which in itself can be a sign that she’s fall in love with you. Don’t discount the size of the favor, gift or surprise. Remember what your mother said: It’s the thought that counts. So if you’re wondering how to know if your girlfriend loves you, notice if she’s putting that much thought into your happiness.
She Tells You
This one seems like a “duh” but some guys can be pretty thick. If a girl tells you that she loves you, she’s not doing it to hear herself talk. She’s doing it because she loves you. Believe her.
AJ Harbinger - author of 1157 posts on The Art of Charm
AJ Harbinger is one of the world’s top relationship development experts. His company, The Art of Charm, is a leading training facility for top performers that want to overcome social anxiety, develop social capital and build relationships of the highest quality.
Raised by a single father, AJ felt a strong desire to learn about relationships and the elements that make them successful. However, this interest went largely untapped for many years. Following the path set out for him by his family, AJ studied biology in college and went on to pursue a Ph.D. in Cancer Biology at the University of Michigan. It was at this time that he began to feel immense pressure from the cancer lab he worked in and began to explore other outlets for expression. It was at this point that The Art of Charm Podcast was born.
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