Where to Find Singles in My Area: Five Places Women Flock to in Every City

One of the most basic struggles when it comes to meeting women in any city is knowing where to find them. You can find singles in the same places in just about every city across the country. It doesn’t matter if you live in a place like Los Angeles or New York or a smaller city like Austin, Louisville or even Cheyenne. When thinking about where to find singles in my area, here are singles in just about the same places everywhere. Read on to learn where women flock to near where you live.

Bars and Clubs

This one is a no brainer. The phrase “singles bar” might be a little outdated, but only because it’s redundant. Bars and clubs are great places to meet singles and practice your social skills. They’re filled with single women and they’re highly socially acceptable places to strike up conversations with strangers. Best of all, there’s bound to be a bar or club to your liking no matter where you live. All you need to do is walk through the door and there are going to be at least a dozen single women that you can talk to.

Coffee Shops

Coffee shops, which have been called “the thinking man’s bar” more than once, are a great place to find singles in my area. These are places that women — smart, capable and active women — flock nearly every day. They might just be picking up a latte or they might be working on their screenplay. Either way, it’s a killer place to meet singles and nearly every burg and hamlet of any size has a decent coffee shop at this point in time. You have to adjust your game a little bit to talk to single women in a coffee shop, but not very much.

Art Galleries

Art galleries are another great alternative to bars and clubs for meeting single women. Like coffee shops, they tend to self-select for smart and creative women. If that’s the type of single woman that you want to meet, there are few better places than art galleries and museums. Particularly on an opening night, the difference between an art gallery and a bar or club is pretty minimal. It’s a place for socializing and there’s a good chance you’ll even find something good to drink there. If you’re just not liking what’s on offer at bars and clubs and looking for a higher caliber of woman, you should check out the singles that art galleries have to offer.

Yoga Classes

Tons of men sign up for yoga classes hoping to meet beautiful, single women. Very few men go ahead and capitalize on it. Why not? It’s a lot easier than you might think. You have a ready-made reason to start up a conversation with that gorgeous single lady on the yoga mat in front of you: The yoga class. You can just say hi at the beginning of the class and strike up a conversation once the class is over. It’s just that easy.

Art Classes

Classes in general are a great way to meet intelligent, creative women interested in improving themselves. Those are the type of single women that all men should aspire to meet. You can always get together after class for a bit of a study session and some quality time. The best part? I get to improve yourself while I find singles in my area. Now that’s what I call a win-win all around.

AJ Harbinger - author of 1161 posts on The Art of Charm

AJ Harbinger is one of the world’s top relationship development experts. His company, The Art of Charm, is a leading training facility for top performers that want to overcome social anxiety, develop social capital and build relationships of the highest quality. Raised by a single father, AJ felt a strong desire to learn about relationships and the elements that make them successful. However, this interest went largely untapped for many years. Following the path set out for him by his family, AJ studied biology in college and went on to pursue a Ph.D. in Cancer Biology at the University of Michigan. It was at this time that he began to feel immense pressure from the cancer lab he worked in and began to explore other outlets for expression. It was at this point that The Art of Charm Podcast was born.

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