The Art of Charm: Flirting And Attraction

Instinctively know how to spark attraction

On the surface, a woman’s process of attraction is a complicated beast – primarily influence by their subconscious and a mystery to many men. Check out these articles and video clips to learn how to use eye contact, body language and high-status humor to make women feel a gut level attraction for you that they can’t deny…

Playful Banter Examples: Be the Funny Guy Who Gets the Girl

When people are out and about at a bar or club, there’s a lot of pressure on. You want to look good, meet new people and have a good time, but you’re probably also a little nervous. So is everyone...

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What You Must Do to Charm Up Women

A lot of men trying to charm up women wonder if she saw them checking her out. She did. That’s why it’s important for you to approach immediately. It shows a confidence that most men have and conf...

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Attraction and Flirting: Using One to Create the Other

However, most men aren’t naturally proficient at flirting. The good news is that flirting is a set of skills that any man can learn and use to his benefit. Share this with your friends:...

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What To Say To a Girl You Want to Date

The best thing you can do while things are getting more serious between you two is to keep things fun. She likes you for who you are, so in some ways it’s easier to keep things light than ever. You ...

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How to Text a Girl

After the first text you’ll need to keep her interested in you until you’re able to meet up again. You’ll need to know how to text the girl enough to show you’re interested, but not so much y...

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Why Your PUA Openers Won’t Ever Work

Women like when you show interest; They want to know that you’re interested in them for reasons other than how they look. Showing interest is a great way to move the conversation forward from simple...

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Why Don’t Girls Like Me When I’m Nice to Them?

Coming off as “too nice” is largely the result of a few subtle, unconscious signals. Avoiding these signals and substituting them with signals that project confidence will ensure that you’re a n...

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Why PUA Openers Don’t Work

Banter lines lighten the mood and give other people permission to have fun. They also allow you to be yourself. Get the ball rolling, get her smiling, get her laughing and then start getting to know e...

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The Relationship Between Smile and Attraction

In the modern world, it also says that you’re fun, carefree and outgoing. In fact, a genuine smile showed up as one of the top ten things that women like in a man in a recent eHarmony study. Share t...

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How to Text Girls You Just Met

Only go for phone numbers from women you’re really vibing with. All too often, guys are playing the numbers game with getting numbers. Share this with your friends:...

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How to Text Girls From Work

Common interests and passions are a great starting point for any relationship, Go ahead and ask her if she wants to get together some time. Share this with your friends:...

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How to Stay Out of the Friend Zone

The rapport stage is where things get more personal. This is where you start talking about where she grew up, what she does for a living and if she likes the bar. Share this with your friends:...

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Lessons from AoC Bootcamp: Committing to the Interaction

Normally I’d wait by pretending to check my phone to look busy/cool… but fuck that. I was done pretending and done caring whether or not I looked cool in front of people who, let’s be honest, a...

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What to Look for in a Charm School for Men: Instruction, Practice, and Making it Stick

Charm classes for men have popped up all over the place for guys who want to improve their social skills and dating life.  With so many options it can be tough to figure out exactly which schools del...

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