Approaching A Woman

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What do you say to a woman you’ve just met? How do you walk up, start a conversation, and build a connection? How does a new woman perceive you? What are the secrets to chatting up a stranger? In this section, our coaches break down the psychology of approaching and techniques for meeting new women.

Solving the Authenticity Paradox (How To Be Who You Really Are)


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Ah, how to be authentic. Authenticity is one of those qualities that has become so desirable, so sought after, that it has been reduced — just like generosity and gratitude — to a meaningless cliché. And yet everything we teach at The Art of Charm, from storytelling to approaching to confronting limiting beliefs, seems to come back to the core … Read More


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7 Ways to Make an Unforgettable First Impression


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How do you make an unforgettable first impression? It’s the question on every guy’s mind, and it’s about so much more than just talking to women. We should start by saying that making an unforgettable first impression doesn’t necessarily have to be the goal; On the contrary, a first impression is mostly about just opening up the door to further … Read More


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5 Reasons Why Approach Anxiety is Illogical


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Probably the biggest obstacle that keeps guys from learning how to approach a girl they like is approach anxiety.  But the amazing thing is that there is absolutely no logical reason for approach anxiety to even exist in the first place.  Here are 5 (though I could go on) of the top reasons why approach anxiety makes absolutely no sense … Read More


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Where You Meet Her Matters


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Knowing good places to meet women will help you take your dating life to the next level – but only if you know how to meet women in each of those places.  There are, after all, subtle differences in how to meet women that change depending on the environment you’re in.  To learn what these differences are, read on. Bars … Read More


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Top 3 Places to Avoid for Meeting Women


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Wondering where to meet women? You’re not alone. Some places are great for meeting women and other places are… less great. We’re not so much telling you not to try to meet women here. We’re just pointing out that these are — by their very nature — some of the harder places to meet women. Consider this the advanced levels … Read More


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Making the Perfect Impression


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It’s a cliche, but it’s still true and it still has its own wisdom: You never get a second chance to make a first impression. So when you approach a woman — at a bar, club or anywhere else — you’re going to want to make the best impression possible. You want to make a perfect impression possible. After all, … Read More


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Using Location to Your Advantage


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The wise man uses every advantage he can get his hands on. Case in point: using your location when you’re out at a bar or club to meet women. In fact, you can take a lot of the hard part out of the equation by selecting for locations that are going to bring women to you, as opposed to making … Read More


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The Best Places to Meet Girls


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What’s the best place to meet girls? We get asked that question all the time at The Art of Charm. And while it’s true that there’s no one best place to meet girls, there are some places that are better than others. For men who are into getting out there and making the most out of their night, here’s a … Read More


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