Approaching A Woman

Meet a woman anywhere, anytime

What do you say to a woman you’ve just met? How do you walk up, start a conversation, and build a connection? How does a new woman perceive you? What are the secrets to chatting up a stranger? In this section, our coaches break down the psychology of approaching and techniques for meeting new women.

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Solving the Authenticity Paradox (How To Be Who You Really Are)

Ah, how to be authentic. Authenticity is one of those qualities that has become so desirable, so sought after, that it has been reduced — just like generosity and gratitude — to a meaningless cliché. And yet everything we teach at The Art of Charm, from storytelling to approaching to confronting limiting beliefs, seems to […]

Approach Anxiety is Illogical
5 Reasons Why Approach Anxiety is Illogical

Probably the biggest obstacle that keeps guys from learning how to approach a girl they like is approach anxiety.  But the amazing thing is that there is absolutely no logical reason for approach anxiety to even exist in the first place.  Here are 5 (though I could go on) of the top reasons why approach […]

Where You Meet Her Matters
Where You Meet Her Matters

Knowing good places to meet women will help you take your dating life to the next level – but only if you know how to meet women in each of those places.  There are, after all, subtle differences in how to meet women that change depending on the environment you’re in.  To learn what these […]

Top 3 Places to Avoid for Meeting Women
Top 3 Places to Avoid for Meeting Women

Wondering where to meet women? You’re not alone. Some places are great for meeting women and other places are… less great. We’re not so much telling you not to try to meet women here. We’re just pointing out that these are — by their very nature — some of the harder places to meet women. […]

Making the Perfect Impression
Making the Perfect Impression

It’s a cliche, but it’s still true and it still has its own wisdom: You never get a second chance to make a first impression. So when you approach a woman — at a bar, club or anywhere else — you’re going to want to make the best impression possible. You want to make a […]

Using Location to Your Advantage
Using Location to Your Advantage

The wise man uses every advantage he can get his hands on. Case in point: using your location when you’re out at a bar or club to meet women. In fact, you can take a lot of the hard part out of the equation by selecting for locations that are going to bring women to […]

The Best Places to Meet Girls
The Best Places to Meet Girls

What’s the best place to meet girls? We get asked that question all the time at The Art of Charm. And while it’s true that there’s no one best place to meet girls, there are some places that are better than others. For men who are into getting out there and making the most out […]