If you spend a lot of time asking “why do girls not like me”, you already know that it’s time for a change in your life; You need to stop crying and do something about it. You might not know it, but attraction is created by the right set of behaviors, being a high-value man that women are interested in. You can become this man, but it all starts with facing up to the fact that you’re the only one who can make the changes in your life.
“Why Do Girls Not Like Me”
“Why do girls not like me?” Probably because no one has taught you the things that women like, the ways that you can make yourself a better man, the characteristics that attractive men — regardless of looks — have. There’s no need to beat yourself up about it. It’s not exactly the type of thing that they teach in school.
You need to start making some changes, in the way that you relate to women, but also the way that you relate to yourself.
How Many Girls Are You Approaching?
It’s also worth examining how many women you approach when you head out to the bar or club. Set a goal every time that you go out for the night of how many women you’re going to approach that night. It’s going to give you something to aspire to, as well as an objective benchmark for you to look at after your night at the club is done. Pick a number appropriate to the setting, appropriate to your experience and stick to it.
Why The Approach Is Important
The approach is where 90 percent of the attraction is made or broken. You’ve probably heard the expression about a woman deciding if she wants to sleep with you in the first three seconds that you two talk. While not entirely true, strictly speaking, it underlies a simple truth: Blow your approach and you’re going to have a lot to make up for. Nail the approach and you’re head and shoulders above every other guy at the bar or club.
How to Master the Approach
The approach is a lot simpler than you might think. Follow these instructions to get the ball rolling:
- Approach Immediately: Don’t wonder if she noticed you; She did.
- Opening: When you open, you don’t need to have some “killer” line; You just need to generate enough attention to start a conversation.
- Get a Smile: One of the best things that you can do right off the bat is to make her smile. This shows that she is relaxing, which is no small feat considering how inherently stressful socializing can be for anyone.
- Express Interest: Too many men make the mistake of thinking that showing interest is a bad thing. On the contrary, you want to show interest. Just simply say after you two have been talking for a few moments, something along the lines of “You seem pretty cool” or “You’re all right… I dig you.”
- Make a Connection: Now it’s time to start asking a lot of the getting to know you type of stuff that men usually lead with. The reason that we save it for later is because it can be very off-putting and difficult when a person comes up to you and starts asking you questions about yourself.
