The Art of Charm wants more for you than just success with women — much more. We want you to the point where you’re living the life you’ve always wanted. Sure, that involves filling your social schedule with more and better dates. Sure, it involves learning how to succeed with women when you hit the town. However, these are only small parts of a bigger whole. Read on to learn about how you can start making strides today toward the life that you’ve always wanted to lead, the life that you deserve.
Know What Kind of Life You Want
The first thing you need to do is figure out what kind of life you want. How do you do this? It’s simpler than you think: Sit down and make a list of what the life you’ve always wanted actually looks like. Don’t be afraid to dig deeper. For example, if the life you’ve always wanted involves making lots of money, ask yourself what you want the money for. What does it mean to you? Freedom? Power? Knowing what the life you want actually looks like is the first step toward getting it, so take some time with this.
Career Comes First
To get anything you want in life, you need to work on your career. You need to pick something that fulfills you and provides you with the lifestyle that you’re looking for. That way, none of your life is wasted. A good career that fulfills you as a person is an investment in yourself and not just because of the money. After all, if you’re going to spend a third to half of your life on something, it needs to be something that you’re getting something out of.
Working Out Isn’t Optional
As you get older, your muscles begin to atrophy, which can lead to some pretty serious health problems later in life. Working out isn’t optional: It’s something that you need to make time for. That said, like your career, how you workout should have something to do with what you enjoy. If you hate running, but can cycle for hours, you’re obviously better off doing the latter. Not sure what you like? Keep trying different stuff until you find what fits for you, or even just recall something that you loved doing as a kid. This makes something necessary in life something enjoyable in life. It doesn’t get much better than that.
Becoming a Man of Culture
What the gym is for your body, books are for your brain. It doesn’t much matter what you read — 10 good news articles online are just as good as a chapter of a book — it matters that you read. It’s an engaging and interactive method of keeping yourself sharp. If you’re into “difficult” books, all the better and don’t be afraid to stretch yourself, but don’t feel like you need to be plowing through the Collected Works of Shakespeare for this to count toward living the life you want. Read something, every day and hopefully have it be something that challenges you a little bit.
Meeting the Right Women: The Quick and Dirty
Want to meet the right women for you? Bars and clubs will only get you so far. Instead, try and meet women through shared activities. This will select for women that you already have something in common with, including shared life goals. If you’re willing to dedicate your time to it, chances are good that it’s something that’s important to you and the same is also true of her. This is a great way to start off a new relationship on the right foot.
