You’re a man of the 21st Century. As such, you’re using the Internet for more than just looking at pictures of cute cats. You’re also using it to meet women and get dates. Still, a lot of men struggle with flirting online with women. It can be a great way to talk to women and The Art of Charm is here to help you do it the right way.
Importance of Body Language and Tonality
First things first: Let’s not mince words. Flirting online or via text takes away approximately 90 percent of what goes into flirting. This puts you at a serious disadvantage. You don’t have body language and tone of voice working for you. This means there’s a much bigger opportunity for miscommunication, and that can kill any attempts you’re making at flirting. The good news is that there’s a way to make up for this.
Replacing That With Emojis
Emoticons are fine, but Emojis are better. I get it: You don’t use them when you talk to your bros. The thing is, though, you’re not talking to your bros. You’re talking to girls. So think of it this way Emojis are a tool that you use when you talk with women to try and get some of that communication back that you lose when all you have is text. Learn how to use these. They can make all the difference in the world.
Keeping Things Light
The main reason that you want to learn to use Emojis the right way is so that you can keep things light and playful. That’s what you want to aim for in banter and flirting online all the time. There should always be some kind of edge in your flirting online that makes her smile. We want to be sexual and challenging to be sure, but we also want to amuse her a bit.
Don’t Go for Rapport Online
A big mistake that a lot of men make when they talk to women online is that they try and have “getting to know you” conversation over the computer. For a variety of reasons, this just isn’t going to work. You want to flirt and add value to her day. Engaging in “getting to know you” conversation, however, isn’t going to get you where you need to be. And that, of course, is…
Go for the Date
You’re not dating online for the sake of chatting with girls and flirting online. You want to get a date. So flirt a bit, then get her to agree to go on a date with you. Tell her that the two of you need to get together some time, then throw a few ideas out and see if she bites.