Things to do on Valentine’s Day for Single Guys | Life Coaches LA
So you’re single on Valentine’s Day. It happens to the best of us. However, the good news from the life coaches of The Art of Charm in Los Angeles is that this is actually a blessing in disguise: Rather than being tied down for the night, you’re free to do whatever. Are you looking for a reason to get out of the house and have a killer evening this Valentine’s Day even though you’re single? Fear not. Our life coaches in LA came up with some killer ideas from our home base in LA.
Who needs a date? Spend the night with the guys. Maybe you hit up a favorite bar. Maybe you have poker night. Maybe you all go out and see a movie that no woman would ever want to go to. It doesn’t really matter. The point is that you probably have other guy friends who are alone on Valentine’s Day. Why not be alone together? Especially if you’re stressing over being single, a night out with the boys can really help to take your mind off of things.
Set Up an Online Dating Profile
Or you can spend the night trying to turn things around. Set up an online dating profile. Our life coaches LA always recommend online dating, especially for men who don’t have a lot of time or are particularly picky. Online dating helps you to sort through literally tens of thousands of women in a fraction of the time that you would at a bar or club. That’s why our life coaches in LA are so keen on them. Best of all, most of them are free.
Shop For a New Look
There are few better ways to make yourself feel like a million bucks than to make yourself look like a million bucks. Your budget doesn’t matter: Thrift stores make it easier than ever to find a killer outfit on the cheap, but don’t feel like you have to bargain shop either. Look for the thing that you like most, then buy it. It’s OK to treat yourself and the joy that you have when you buy the perfect outfit will come back every time that you put it on.
The Deluxe Treatment at the Barber
Let me let you in on a little secret: Our life coaches in LA love going to the barber. In fact, one of the guys at The Art of Charm goes to his barber right here in LA every week. Barbers are an inexpensive way to get a killer haircut, as well as a shave. This is another way that you can really feel like a million bucks without spending it. If you’re having a hard time this year and want to treat yourself, fifty dollars can go a long, long, long way at a local barbershop.
Go Out and Meet Women
It sounds counter-intuitive, but Valentine’s Day is actually one of the best nights of the year to meet women. It’s not so much that the women out are “easy pickings” or anything gross like that: It’s just that all the women in bars tend to be single, as the ones who are taken are out on dates. So hit up your favorite bar or club and try and meet someone — it’s actually a lot easier than you think.
If you’re like a lot of men, you want to take your social life to the next level. Guess what? The Art of Charm is there to help you. Right here in Los Angeles we run our boot camps. Give us one week of your life and we can help you to become the man that you’ve always wanted to be. It’s already worked for thousands of men and it can work for you.
AJ Harbinger - author of 1166 posts on The Art of Charm
AJ Harbinger is one of the world’s top relationship development experts. His company, The Art of Charm, is a leading training facility for top performers that want to overcome social anxiety, develop social capital and build relationships of the highest quality.
Raised by a single father, AJ felt a strong desire to learn about relationships and the elements that make them successful. However, this interest went largely untapped for many years. Following the path set out for him by his family, AJ studied biology in college and went on to pursue a Ph.D. in Cancer Biology at the University of Michigan. It was at this time that he began to feel immense pressure from the cancer lab he worked in and began to explore other outlets for expression. It was at this point that The Art of Charm Podcast was born.
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