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In most cases, the best way to tell a girl you like her is to simply man up and do it. Accept whatever outcome occurs. That being said, there are a few things you can do in leading up to telling a girl you like her that will help you get the positive response you want (including texting). So before you make your move, check out these tips on how to tell a girl you like her.

Body Language Mastery: Non-Verbal Cues to Show Attraction

One way to show a girl you’re that interested in her is to give off signals of attraction through your body language. Show a woman the right body language and she’ll assume you like her.

The key to showing a girl you like her in this way is to give her positive body language. Make eye contact with the woman regularly and pay attention to how she responds with her own eye contact. Listen actively to what she says, and turn toward her so both your chest and feet are pointing slightly in her direction during your interactions. This kind of attention will get her to start thinking that you’re interested in her.

Just be careful not to overdo it. Too much positive body language and eye contact with women can create too much tension too quickly. Think about squaring off with a guy who wants to fight you. That shoots the tension through the roof. And that’s not a comfortable situation for getting to know someone. On the flipside, it can also make a guy look needy because he’s conveying to her that he likes her before he knows anything about her. She hasn’t earned his full interest yet, so that makes him look low value. It also conveys that he is socially uncalibrated.

Balancing Attraction and Disinterest: Mastering Neutral Body Language

Think of the ideal body language setup as the two of you standing shoulder to shoulder, facing the same direction. This is what we refer to as neutral body language. If you were facing away from each other, that would be negative. If you were standing toe to toe, that would be 100% positive, and if you stand like that for more than a few seconds without her repositioning, she’s probably waiting for you to kiss her.

Anyway, back to neutral body language. If she likes you, she will make an effort to turn toward you. This is one of the clearest signs a woman likes you. So, when you are the one who turns toward her, you’re telling her you like her. If you turn toward her before she turns toward you, you are stealing her ability to show you she likes you. She subconsciously knows that if she turns toward you now, that she would be telling you she likes you a lot when she might still be on the fence.

Balancing Interest and Desire: How to Create Sexual Attraction Without Words

Touch is a more effective way you subtly show a girl you like her. Touching conveys interest and you simultaneously escalate the sexual tension between the two of you. Just make sure you know if she has a boyfriend—additional assembly may be required.

Touching is critical if you like a girl and want to get her to like you back. You may want to start with light, playful taps on the elbows during conversation – and build from there. For example you could: gently touch her arm/shoulder/back/knee throughout your conversation, guide the small of her back as she walks through a doorway, or mix side-hugs into the interaction.

The trick in using touch to attract women is to gradually increase the duration and intimacy of the touch. For example, move from elbow to shoulder to neck, etc. while making contact for progressively longer periods of time. As she becomes more and more comfortable being physical with you at deeper and deeper levels, the sexual attraction the woman feels towards you will gradually strengthen.

How to Tell a Girl You Like Her: Weave It Into the Conversation

Dropping the “I like you” bomb out of nowhere can sometimes be a lot for a girl to handle. If her mind is focusing on other things and she’s not expecting it, then it may throw her through a bit of a loop. So before telling a girl you like her, you may want to first steer the conversation in that direction.

For example, when talking to the girl you like you may want to bring up the subject of dating. Ask her about her dating life. See what she looks for in a man/relationship and if there’s anyone she likes. After she explains this, it’s your turn to talk about your dating life. Now that she’s focused on you, she’s less likely to be taken off-guard when you tell her you like her.

Crafting the Perfect Words: What to Say When You’re Ready to Ask Her Out

One of the best ways to let a girl know you like her is to simply ask her out on a date. Of course when it comes to how to ask a girl out, some ways are better than others.

For example, saying “Hey, let’s meet up Friday” can leave her unsure of your intention. She may just assume you want to meet up as friends. Further, you also don’t want to use a line like “Will you go out with me?” because that comes across as weak and needy.

The best way to ask a girl out involves clarity and confidence. Saying something like “I want to take you on a date, are you free Friday?” can work great. It shows a woman confidence because you own the fact you like her. It also shows the clear intention that you want to date her.

The Art of the Ask: Planning How to Ask a Girl Out

Now, the words you use when asking a girl out are not going to be nearly as important as the way you deliver them. So here are three tips for asking a girl out that will help you do it effectively

• Assume she’ll say yes. Focus on the reasons she would want to date a guy like you and on all the potential fun you’ll have together. This will help you to be confident when asking a girl out.
• Be unattached to the outcome. If she says yes, that’s awesome. If she says no, no worries. Just a minor setback that won’t keep you down for long. At the end of the day, know that you will continue to live a kick-ass life regardless of her response.
• Be vulnerable. Stop trying to “do it right” and just express exactly how you feel and what you want without holding back. As mentioned in the opening paragraph, this is often the best way to tell a girl you like her as she’ll immediately appreciate your courage and honesty (which will only make the woman more attracted to you). Plus, you will feel amazing for fearlessly opening up like that.

Navigating the Aftermath: What to Do After Conveying Your Interest

You ask her out. The date goes well so you ask her out on another. Before you know it, you’ve been seeing each other for a few months. As long as you maintain frame and lead, she’ll start developing feelings for you. At that point it’s important to pay attention for the signs she might be falling for you.

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