Why Women Don’t Understand What Men Say


“Men are simple? You really think men are simple?” she asked me again, in a voice filled with skeptical curiosity. She obviously didn’t agree with me, or thought I was deluded. I had just met her at a small get-together the night before. She was one of my male friend’s dates, and we’d run into each other again the next … Read More


in Art of Dating, Building A Connection

The Fake Out


It’s the dreaded “flake” or “flake-out.” It happens to many folks, enough that we know the end of the story pretty much from the start. She gives you her number, but then doesn’t answer your call, or maybe you do get a date set up, but then she cancels at the last minute.  “She gave me her number,” he says.


in Art of Dating, Dating Tips

Time For Action


Knowledge is a means to application. Reading books can give you nothing but theory. Watching videos can give you nothing but theory. Until you take those theories out and start applying them, you have nothing but words in your head.


in Approaching A Woman, Art of Dating

No One is Everyone’s Cup of Tea


I remember one particular day in seventh grade… I was rattling on and on to my dad yet again, gossiping about this person and that person that he didn’t know and bless his heart, probably didn’t care about at all. I was all, “Blah blah blah, she likes him but he doesn’t like her, which doesn’t make sense because she’s … Read More


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