Looking for some fun second date ideas? Then you should be looking outside, because that’s where some of the best second date options are. To learn why that is and what outdoor activities would make for a great second date, check out the tips below.
Picnic
Forget the stuffy fancy restaurant. What girl wouldn’t love a romantic picnic in a park? Bring a blanket, pack some wine, cheese and crackers, sandwiches – whatever you want – and take her out to enjoy some fresh air and sunshine.
What’s great about a picnic is that instead of feeling that pressure to keep the conversation fun and engaging – like you might feel when staring at one another in a restaurant – you’ll both feel more relaxed and at ease. You can enjoy nature, do some people-watching, and let a more natural, spontaneous conversation arise.
Geocaching
Geocaching is a fun second date idea that is probably unlike any second date the woman has had before (learn more at geocaching.com). This is basically a “real-world treasure hunt” where you and your date get the chance to run around town looking for “buried treasure”. It gives you a fun activity to focus on while getting you thinking and working together. Being on the same “team” like this is going to strengthen the connection between you. And the fresh, new experience from a fun second date idea like this is going to help you stand out from all the other guys out there.
Hiking
Sometimes you just need to get away from the noise, stress, and hassle of everyday life. And a nice quite hike is a great way to get that calm peace of mind. The great thing about hiking is it gives you a chance to talk – yet talking isn’t necessary. Together you can enjoy the beauty of nature, the quite stillness of being away from everyone, and connect over that.
Plus, if you are the type of person who enjoys hiking this is a great chance to see how this woman will fit into your lifestyle. Rather than wasting time trying to “impress” her with things you think she wants (like a fancy dinner) you can cut straight to seeing if she is the kind of girl you could hang with in your everyday life.
Bike ride
Biking is one of the more inexpensive (perhaps free) yet fun second date ideas. Pedaling around town not only gives you a chance to take in some beautiful scenery, but it will get your endorphins pumping. The endorphin kick will boost her mood (and yours) and get you both feeling good. She will associate that good feeling with you, making her more inclined to spend more time with you in the future.
The Zoo
Good luck having a bad date at the zoo. When you bring your date to a place that’s fun and enjoyable in its own right (like the zoo) you are all but guaranteed to have an enjoyable time.
Plus, a place like the zoo gives you both a chance to learn and experience new things. Novelty alone releases dopamine in the brain, and so this experience is likely to be enjoyable merely because it’s different from her (and your) day-to-day activities.
Mini golf
An activity like mini golf is one of those fun second date ideas you can always rely on. Shared activities give you something to focus on other than the conversation, and even give you something to talk about. Plus, you can get glimpses into each other’s personality that you may not get otherwise. For example, you will get to see first-hand how she handles a little friendly competition. Glimpses like this can help you see if she’s the kind of girl you want to spend more time with.
Cookout
What girl doesn’t want a man who can cook for her? But rather than rushing around a hot kitchen, take it outside. Hang out with a few drinks, show off your grilling skills, and put together a nice meal the two of you can enjoy outside.
Now if you’re going to be doing the cooking, give her a chance to contribute in other ways. Have her bring the dessert, wine, or whatever else you think the two of you might need later.
Go big
If you are really feeling adventurous, and spending money isn’t much of an issue, then don’t be afraid to go a little bigger. Take your date skydiving or maybe even head to an amusement park. Provide a truly unique and enjoyable experience that’s different from the other dates she goes on.
A word of warning though: Sometimes fun second date ideas like this can backfire in the long run. If you take her skydiving and enjoy other great adventures together early on, she’ll expect that that to continue. So if you’re just doing these things to “win a girl over” it can hurt the relationship down the road when these things stop. So instead of seeking out activities to “wow” her, do them because you enjoy them. That way you can see if she fits your life the way it is, and you will be less likely to run into problems down the road.
Where to find fun second date ideas
If you want more fun second date ideas, check your local paper and stay up-to-date on events going on in your area. You can also check out sites like thrillist.com, meetup.com, or even groupon.com as they can be great tools for finding “hidden gems” you never knew existed in your area.
More dating tips and advice
Fun second date ideas will go a long way in making that date a success. But there are other factors at play that will determine how things ultimately go. For example, you’ll also want to be sure your body language is on point so you come across as the confident, charismatic man women are attracted to. To learn more about things like that, check out the Art of Charm’s Free Insider Toolkit. You can gain immediate access simply by entering your email in the box to the right of this article.
