AJ Harbinger
“We do not teach lines or routines that hide insecurities and replicate other men’s successes.”
AJ Harbinger carried out a variety of social experiments while attending the University of Michigan with his buddy Jordan, sparking their interest is social dynamics. Those experiments fueled the PickUp Podcast and SiriusXM’s ‘Game On’, both weekly shows for men looking to improve their overall social skills and develop confidence with the opposite sex.
Much of AJ’s expertise comes to him naturally and with a genuine curiosity for social interaction. Like so many, he watched his parents’ marriage dissolve due to basic incompatibility issues. However, instead of having this affect him and his future relationships in a negative way, AJ has turned this experience into a positive through a career that allows him to help men and women find stronger connections and eventually create stronger marriages.
AJ went on from ‘PickUp Podcast’ and on-call coaching to co-founding The Art of Charm in 2007. Possessing an advanced degree in the cancer biology, AJ has always strived to be the best in any field he entered. This pursuit is what drives his current business, lifestyle and pursuit of becoming legendary.








