Fan Mail Friday #141 | Dichromats, Trichromats, and Doormats

Time for Fan Mail Friday, where we’ll be answering your questions and dropping some knowledge and feedback to help you kick the weekend off right.

If you’re new to The Art of Charm Podcast, this isn’t a great place to start. Most of our content is more in-depth and longer format. Listen to recent guests Bob Sutton and Aubrey Marcus for a better idea of our regular programming.

Also make sure to check out our Best Of picks or the Fundamentals Toolbox episodes. There, we’ve got the fundamentals of body language and nonverbal communication, attraction, negotiation, networking, and everything else we teach here at The Art of Charm.

Let’s cut to it! In this episode:

  • What do you say when you meet a celebrity — without being awkward?
  • Is it still called imposter syndrome when you’re an imposter by design?
  • How do you tell a loved one their behavior is freaking you out?
  • How do you help a sibling whose bad behavior is having a negative impact on the whole family?
  • Should you have to take the lead when it comes to keeping in touch with family?
  • Listener advice for people who need to collect from chronic check bouncers.
  • Quick shoutouts to Teiki Kimball and Lena, and Korhan and Amber!
  • Have any questions, comments, or stories you’d like to share with us? Drop us a line at [email protected]!
  • Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @TheArtofCharm and Instagram at @jordanharbinger, and check out Jason’s (@jpdefother show: Grumpy Old Geeks.

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Jordan Harbinger - author of 930 posts on The Art of Charm

Jordan Harbinger has spent several years abroad in Europe and the developing world, including South America, Eastern Europe, and the Middle East, and speaks several languages. He has also worked for various governments and NGOs overseas, traveled through war zones, and been kidnapped -- twice. He’ll tell you the only reason he’s still alive and kicking is because of his ability to talk his way into (and out of) just about any type of situation. Here at The Art of Charm, Jordan shares that experience, and the system borne as a result, with students and clients.

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