Finally! A Proven Method To Master Elite Emotional Intelligence So You Can:
AJ Harbinger & Johnny Dzubak of
The Art of Charm
Invite You to Join a 5-Day Live Event
“How do I connect with anyone, anytime, anywhere? (Without getting stuck in the small talk loop…)”
. . .so what are “advanced” social skills?
If you've ever:
- Felt like your social circle was holding you back (because you have different values and goals)
- Struggled to get past “small talk” (Because you don’t know what to say after “What do you do?” or “Where are you from?”)
- Wanted to VIBE with ANYONE in the room (even if you’re slightly introverted)
Advanced social skills are the subtle nuances that school didn’t teach you about human behavior, psychology, and emotional intelligence.
It’s why some people seem to “connect” with everyone, have a powerful network, and are happy in their relationships.
Some guys develop these skills early in life, some guys a bit later and, some guys never learn it.
Hey there! I’m AJ Harbinger of The Art of Charm
I’ll be honest…
I was a bit a dork growing up…
I had a science book in my hand by age 6…
I played basketball & football in high school, but never excelled athletically, more so academically
I was raised by a hard-working single dad…
Of course, I picked up my social development from him... He had a small social circle so it wasn’t the best place to learn how to make friends. And to be honest, I probably picked up several BAD habits.
During school, I was a little introverted so I kept to my tribe...
When I graduated college my social circle started to dwindle…
But it wasn’t until I got to grad school that I saw how my poor social skills were affecting my relationships in the lab.
In my mind, I felt I was doing and saying the right things. It turns out others felt I was cold & arrogant... What?!
I couldn’t believe it.
I needed to fix this…
So I started researching how to make a better first impression & how to connect with people in a meaningful way.
I discovered a rabbit hole of info.
That led me to ask...
Why did it take my google-fu skills to discover all this? How come they don’t teach this stuff in school?
Most people think, if you’re not naturally gifted socially... you’re out of luck...
That. Is. WRONG.
So I began my quest to develop these skills. I even started a podcast to document my findings and progress.
It was through this quest that I met Johnny... a literal rockstar (guitar player in a rock band) who was on a similar journey.
His confidence and authenticity was contagious.
Together we scoured the earth and back...packaged up all our science & research on advanced social skills and put it into the only premier training you’ll find in the world.
You know what else we found?
These skills aren’t instinctual. People aren’t “born charismatic”.
They are coachable. And anyone can learn them.
Are you ready to understand human interaction on a whole new level?
Are you ready to make a difference in the lives of everyone around you and cultivate a new network of high value people?
In five days flat, I’ll turn you into a Social Machine.
YOU will discover how to talk to anyone, anytime, anywhere.
YOU will become a high-value person who attracts other high performers and fosters relationships with them.
YOU will unlock access to a network of alumni who are well connected and like-minded, like you.
By doing what you were born to do:
Connecting with people.
And by attending Bootcamp, you will walk away with a network of people who will help hold you accountable as you re-enter your life with these new skills.
Within 5 days, you can go from “living safe & settling” to:
Everything you know about connecting with people is WRONG, and we’re spilling the truth at The Art Of Charm Bootcamp. Here’s a preview…
#1. If networking feels “icky”, (just hours of small talk...who wants that?) well you aren’t doing it right.
We had a student named David who was never able to bond with his co-workers. David was a hard worker and after 2 years with his company, was given a leadership role for a project. This freaked him out a little...When he was doing solo projects he would always exceed expectations. But now he had a team to lead. A team whom he’d never formed real relationships with. At AoC bootcamp we taught him a skill based on Dr. John Gottman’s research called emotional bids. Emotional bids occur in conversation all the time. They are the mechanism we use to transition out of small talk and into meaningful conversations. But most of us miss them, or don’t know what they look like.
David’s worry was that he would come off disingenuous because he had never shown interest in his team before...but NOW that he had this new leadership role he was “all the sudden” interested in connecting with them. He was afraid they’d see this attempt as “icky” and self-serving. But that was the furthest thing from the truth. We taught him how to identify & respond to their emotional bids to build strong relationships.
With this new skill set, he was able to gain the respect of his entire team as their leader. They ended up crushing the project.
#2. NOBODY is “out of your league”.
Dennis was a student who felt there was no one attractive to meet in his city...He lived in Toronto (which is basically the NYC of Canada) so when Dennis told us this problem we challenged him a little. We ended up identifying that he labeled women he wanted as “out of his league”. This mental block of putting them in a “league” outside his own blinded him to noticing women he wanted. He never had the charisma or charm to be magnetic so he would always overlook any opportunity to meet them.
After Bootcamp, he went back to Toronto and was blown away by all the opportunities to meet and connect with attractive women. We gave him the skill set to be charismatic, confident, and magnetic so he could connect with ANYONE around him. Upon sharpening those skills he started noticing more and more women that used to be out of his league were now reachable.
#3. If you feel like you’re giving a great first impression, but still getting negative feedback... you may be missing something.
Dr. Robert was one of our previous students & a successful physician in NYC. He thought he had a great first impression, but would always have trouble connecting with the other doctors and nurses in the hospital. This was confusing to him because he had great bedside presence with his patients. So he always assumed his first impression was great. When we did our exercise around video work (which allows you to watch your own body language) he realized he carried the stress of his job in his upper body which made him appear intimidating. This often caused his coworkers to walk on eggshells around him. When he noticed this it shocked him & he corrected his first impression instantly. He was able to carry that back home to his patients, fellow doctors, & nurses. His relationships with everyone at work skyrocketed.
This was the missing piece...and the best part? This trickled over to his dating life, too. Robert is a tall, handsome, successful doctor but would always have trouble getting to the second or third date. After Bootcamp, he was getting second dates left and right because he was able to connect immediately. He also noticed his patients felt at ease with him MUCH FASTER than before. This was a big deal because his mission as a cardiologist is to change the paradigm of heart health. Instead of prescribing pills for every problem he is encouraging people to change their diets.
This is tough news to deliver to patients who don’t want to change their lifestyle and would rather take a pill. If you want to convince people of something they have to trust you instantly. So now that his first impression was fixed, his whole life seemed to get easier and things start clicking for him.
APPLY FOR THE ART OF CHARM BOOTCAMP
Here’s What You’ll Get:
Whether you’re an engineer, author, speaker, business owner, military man, coach, consultant, doctor, or anyone in a high-disciplined field...after five value-packed days, you’ll walk away with:
✓ The complete roadmap on how to make authentic connections with anyone in your life (friends, family, co-workers)
✓ A customized gameplan to implement these advanced social skills into your life…
…and the alumni network connections to go with it!
✓ Master Mental Toughness
- Discipline is a pillar of success. Often times it’s easier to be disciplined when there is someone there holding you accountable. During bootcamp, we’ll identify the social struggles holding you back from making that leap forward and help you face them head on. #GetUncomfortable
✓ Cultivate Community
- All attendees are pre-vetted. You can’t just show up to this program. You must be accepted. You can feel confident that your bootcamp mates will all be like-minded & looking to level-up just like YOU. We also look for personality matches while vetting. So you can be sure you’ll get along with everyone in your group.
✓ Create A Custom Game Plan For YOU
- Each of you will have different areas of your life you want to work on. Whether it’s career, romance, or plutonic social relationships...you will get individualized attention to work on that part of your life. You’ll leave with take-home actionable strategies to generate immediate & long-term ROI
✓ Avoid The Woo-Woo New Age BS
- This isn’t some visualization workshop where we teach you the “Law of Attraction” or affirmations to repeat in the mirror. We give you actionable, science-backed social skills that lead to enhanced emotional intelligence and the ability to take your life, love, or career to a level you didn’t know existed.
✓ Bond With Your Brothers
- You’ll be staying in our luxury villa for 5 days with your bootcamp mates. You will connect, forge lifelong bonds, and help each other get through each exercise.
If this is you, don’t come:
Apathetic Sloths: If you’re NOT interested in growth, connecting with people, or leveling-up in life, don’t come. This isn’t a 5-day therapy session...it’s a finisher’s retreat. We’re here to level-up, not dig through your past baggage about why you’re broken inside.
Self-Proclaimed Genius: We don’t want know-it-alls. You will be coached and we expect you to be coachable. If you think you know everything already, stay home...what do you need us for anyways?
Small Talkers: We’re not interested in surface level chit chat. We’re going to get vulnerable from the moment you walk in the door. If you’re uncomfortable sharing personal stories, stay home.
Bullshitters: Again, we aren’t looking for superficial conversations. Plan to attend to talk WITH people, not AT them. We’re going deep inside ourselves, we want people who can be authentic & admit their weaknesses.
If THIS is you, apply NOW:
Abundance Mindset: You believe there’s room for everyone to succeed with the right combination of ingredients. You believe a rising tide raises all boats.
Endless Giver: Giving energizes you. Seeing other’s success is fulfilling for you because you understand the more you give, the more you grow. You don’t get jealous at other people’s success.
Ceaseless Student: You believe in Kaizen & continuous improvement. You understand life isn’t about a destination, but a journey to always improve yourself.
“Hell Yes” Action Taker: You only do something if the answer is “hell yes”. You don’t have time for “Sure” or “I guess so”. You only say “hell yes” or “hell no”.
You can expect to learn:
- Lead and inspire your colleagues and teammates to achieve new goals and deliver breakthrough results.
✓ How To Authentically Earn Respect:
- Naturally gain the attention, respect and curiosity of those around you, allowing you to direct the momentum of the group.
✓ How To Read a Room:
- Instantly scan a room and understand the dynamics at play in any social or professional situation.
✓ Elite Emotional Intelligence:
- You will discover how to be aware of, control, and express your emotions as well as how to read other people’s emotions judiciously & empathetically.
YOUR ALL-ACCESS TICKET INCLUDES:
- The 5-day Art of Charm Bootcamp in our luxury villa in sunny Los Angeles
- The First Impression field day
- Two in-field practice evenings with personal coaching
- Healthy dinners to start and end the event
- Membership to the Art of Charm Facebook Family and exclusive alumni app
- Advanced social skills you need to take your business, love life, & social circle to the next level
Here’s What to Do Next…
Click the “Apply Now!” button and fill out the application on the next page. It includes some questions about your business, what challenges you’re facing, and what you’re looking to gain from the event.
After submitting the application, a member of my team will contact you to set up a quick call. We’ll answer all your questions and make sure the event is the right fit for you. If it is, we’ll get you set up on the spot and send over all the event details.
AoC Bootcamp will be held in Los Angeles!
Why THIS Event?
Because we are the experts. The Art of Charm is a revolutionary school created by a team of social dynamics experts that have taken over a thousand guys from ordinary to extraordinary. This means you’ll have mastered the most tried and successful strategies upon completion of the program.
We’ve been running this program for 12 years. It’s tried & true.
Benefiting from our years of research and expertise, you’ll improve your skills at a rapid pace. You will develop a philosophy of pride and professionalism that unlocks the tools to transform your life. You’ll master this philosophy in a practical, immersive environment.
Imagine having no fear on your path to achieve those professional goals, meeting and connecting with the people you want, and building that successful career you’ve been striving for. To do this you need to become a better man. That’s where we come in.
From your body language to your interpersonal dealings, you will explore every facet of your social skills – then adjust, adapt and transform it so you can return to your life with a new confidence and focus – and you’ll have the support of the AoC team and your peers the entire time.
But don’t take our word for it…
Past Attendees Describe It Even Better Than I Can
“Signing up for the AoC Bootcamp has been my greatest investment to improve myself and change my life. I gained so much confidence in my ability to connect and deepen my relationships with people. It’s amazing how much easier it has been to meet new people and create instant connections. I have the exact same personality, the only thing that has changed is my mindset and a few behaviors.
Since taking Bootcamp, my social life has been the busiest and happiest it’s ever been…new friends and dates every week, getting invites to parties, trips, or social outings. Thanks to what I’ve learned, I’ve had awesome people approach me at all kinds of venues.
I am so grateful to the coaches during the program for their guidance, great energy, and patience in teaching me the skills we needed to accomplish our goals. If they were not by my side while doing the exercises, I wouldn’t have made this much progress.
I would recommend the Bootcamp to anyone who is ready to step up their game in life.“
– Moise A.
“I was super hesitant about AoC because it seemed like a big investment. I had done other workshops with other so-called ‘coaches’ and, while they were kind of helpful, they didn’t really make any lasting change. However, when it came to meeting people and managing relationships, I wasn’t getting anywhere on my own and needed to do something. The AoC Bootcamp turned out to be a ton of fun and gave me just what I was looking for.
The guys in my program were awesome and the instructors were great at both pushing me well past my comfort zone and providing encouragement if I got overwhelmed. After AoC, I went on more dates and met more amazing people in the two months following my program than I had in the two years prior. It’s a great feeling to know that on any given day I can walk up to anyone on the street, in a coffee shop, or wherever and have a good shot at forming a connection.”
– Brian M.
“The AoC taught me about 98% of what I was hoping it would. I’m now attracting more higher-quality people into my life, I’m more confident in any social environment, and I have much better body language and non-verbal communication. I now really look forward to my nights out and crazy stuff seems to be happening all the time.
One thing that really exceeded my expectations on the course was how much fun I had. The coaches were awesome and they made me process that I was fearful of... fun. The five days flew by and before really realizing it, I had all these new skills under my belt — skills that are going to be invaluable for the rest of my life.”
– Will E.
Frequently Asked Questions
Enter with High Expectations and Leave Feeling Blown Away
Past Art of Charm bootcamp attendees have been promoted at work, gained the confidence to change careers, found perfect partners, and much more!
Walk Away From the Bootcamp with Results Like This…
Even More Testimonials (for you people who read 100 Amazon reviews before every purchase)
“The Art of Charm seemed like it was just a more higher level, more grown up version of everything else out there.”
"There's a lot of other boot camps and similar programs out there, but the content that came out of the podcast was always more authentic. It wasn't tricks or hacks or anything like that. It seemed to be from more genuine standpoint - the better way to become a man or a person.
The Art of Charm seemed like it was just a more higher level more grown up version of everything else out there. It seemed like everyone else was more interested in doing infield pickups and the Art of Charm is really not that. It's part of it but it's just a piece of it, the total package.
I went in with a pretty open mindset. I really didn't have that high expectations. I knew I was going to get something out of it, but what we got ... Just how the days progressed, the lectures, working with the other guys and an immersion into the whole thing. It was amazing how it all came together that last night. Just to see the growth in myself and everybody else that we went through the program with.
The Boot Camp gave me a different way of looking at things. One of my big takeaways was how everybody goes through life in auto-pilot mode. We have to be leaders and snap ourselves and people out of that auto-pilot mode. Life is too short to go through life with a frown on your face and being unhappy and not being your true authentic self.
It's probably been about a few months since I ended my program. One thing I discovered is this is all a learnable skill.You get a lot out of the program, but a big part of it was meeting up with other people once you're out of the program and just putting the stuff into practice whether it's to be going to random events and just going by yourself or going with the other alumni, and having that attitude that we're going to go out together and we're going to practice this stuff. You may not have good success at first but we're going to get better and better at this."
– Lane K.
“My favorite part of the program was the tailored feedback.”
“When I made the decision to attend an AoC program, my choice would change my life forever. I am so much more confident in my ability to attract and connect with both men and women. The coaches were amazing! My favorite part of the program was the tailored feedback; I grew by leaps and bounds each day because of the coach and peer feedback.
I am not scared about going out anymore or even worried about messing up. The AoC team has created the perfect atmosphere for people to feel comfortable with failing. I now look forward to when I fail because of the huge returns and lessons that come from it. Take a program and see for yourself how you can bring out the real you. This is an experience you will never forget!”
– Steve W.
“It’s an investment in your social skills, in self-reflection, and the ability to open up.”
“I’ve come to realize that the best investment you can make is not in a house, a car or any other material thing, but in yourself. AoC is an investment in your social skills, in self-reflection, and the ability to open up, to name just a few.
It is a heap of fun; you will meet cool people and the instructors genuinely care about seeing you succeed because, after all, they went through the same process. Sure, you will be challenged and pushed out of your comfort zone, but that’s all part of the fun and adds to the feeling of exhilaration when you begin to achieve your goals!”
– Traian K.
Our classes fill up FAST...
So if you’re at all serious about taking your business to the next level, apply NOW.
We take as many applications as we can, but when we’re full… we’re full.
We only accept 10 students per bootcamp...
“We are hardwired to connect with others. It’s what gives purpose and meaning to our lives. Without it, there is suffering.” – Brene Brown
A year from now, you’ll wish you’d started today.
Leave your comfort zone behind and click the button below to fill out your application.
After submitting the application, you will schedule a quick chat with an Art of Charm coach. We’ll answer all your questions and make sure the event is the right fit for you. If it is, we’ll get you set up on the spot and send over all the event details.
You show up.
We’ll give you the skills.
See you in LA!
If networking and connections are a weakness, make them the strongest in just five days at the Art of Charm bootcamp!
- Leadership: Lead and inspire your colleagues and teammates to achieve new goals and deliver breakthrough results.
- Command Respect: Naturally gain the attention, respect and curiosity of those around you, allowing to you direct the momentum of the group.
- Read a Room: Instantly scan a room and understand the dynamics at play in any social or professional situation.
- Character Analysis: Assess people’s confidence, competence, presence and social awareness before they even know you’re paying attention.
- Communication Analysis: Learn to read between the lines of communication and understand why people are really saying what they’re saying.
- Negotiation Techniques: Develop subtle (and not-so-subtle) persuasion tactics to influence decision-making and guide people toward your desired outcomes.
- Conflict Resolution: Resolve conflicts in meetings, between colleagues, or in any social environment with empathy and confidence.
- Emotional Intelligence: Identify and destroy negative thoughts and behaviors (including neediness, approval seeking, hesitance, and self-doubt).
AND gain access to the Art of Charm Family Facebook group, where you can expect ongoing connections and exclusive opportunities!