What if you could have engaging conversations and build deeper connections professionally, socially, and romantically...

(without using any manipulation or persuasion techniques)

Even if you think you're boring (hint: you're not)
Even if you are introverted
Even if you don't know what to talk about
Even if you run out of things to say
Even if you dread boring small talk
"Before joining Charismatic Conversations, I avoided social situations because they made me uncomfortable; I was very bad at them. 

With Charismatic Conversations, I learned how to deal with difficult emotions and thoughts and to take actions despite them. My biggest learning is realizing that I can actually be the leader of my social life instead of being passive." 

Miriam, Canada
"Having been an Art of Charm listener for many years, it felt time to invest in myself and trust their expertise and advise that has helped me in my own life. 

Joining Charismatic Conversations helped me improve my interactions with people, from first impression to growing my comfort with presenting a better image to people I saw every day. The exercises push you, gently, out of your comfort zone in order to help you change and grow."

Dan, Colorado
"Wow not sure what to say. I hate conversation. It’s was black hole. I’d go up to people and go blank. What do I say, how do I get them to respond and not run away. So many how’s. So much anxiety. 

Charismatic Conversations answered them all and gave me the tools to be more confident. Now I am having awesome conversations with strangers, coworkers, friends and best of all women!!" 

Alan, California
Most conversations DIE in the first 90 seconds because they don’t get past “small talk”...
Hi, I'm AJ Harbinger.
Co-Founder of The Art of Charm
How did a PhD dropout crack the charisma code?
There I was...at the invite-only entrepeneur networking event of the year (DC10 Summit Series). 

I was standing in a room full of the world's greatest entrepreneurs, academics, athletes, artists, authors, philanthropists, spiritual leaders, scientists, and beyond.

I just walked out of a small Q&A session with Mark Cuban and Bill Clinton casually strolled by me...

I was surrounded by a group of heavy-hitting entrepreneurs, one of which just hired me to train his sales staff on relationship building…

And all I could think was...

How did I end up here?

3 years earlier, I couldn't connect with any of my grad school advisors, I bombed my first thesis proposal, and my committee chair cut me off halfway through the presentation...

I was so embarrassed by what happened that day that I called my dad and let him know I was dropping out of the University of Michigan...(GO BLUE!)

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The irony was not lost on me…

After dropping out of UofM, I moved to NYC to start The Art of Charm. 

This self-discovery journey disguised as a podcast ended up transforming my entire life...

Today it’s one of the largest podcasts out there on human connection...with 12 years of research to back it up (I guess grad school helped for something!)

And that journey led me to the DC10 Summit Series...

But enough about me…

I started The Art of Charm for YOU. 

Because if you’re reading this right now, I know that you, like me, are sick and tired of coming up short. 

And maybe you don’t know why…

You’ve probably believed that the key to happiness and success is based on how hard you work…(that’s what I believed my whole life)

I mean, I busted my butt in grad school and had 10x more data and research than any of my classmates, yet I struggled to persuade my peers to listen...

Your parents probably believed it and passed it on to you, and their parents before them. 

Every rags-to-riches movie ever made has told you that you just need to work harder...

I hate to break it to you…(trust me, it was a HARD pill for me to swallow too)…

You've believed a false truth your entire life. (And I'm sure it was not intentional.)
You’ve been accidentally tricked into believing that hard work determines success. 
And if you’re a good person you’ll find your dream partner to share all of your riches with. 

It’s the most common lie ever told. 

The REAL key to success? 

Relationships.

Have you ever experienced this?

  • ​Less qualified co-workers getting the promotion that YOU deserve?
  • ​People no better than you going on the dates you should be going on?
  • ​People less intelligent than you being accepted into a powerful network?
I’m sure you probably work harder than all of those people...

But it’s not about your work ethic...it’s about the relationships you are able to build…(aka it’s not WHAT you know, but WHO you know). 

If knowledge was power, librarians would rule the world. 

If you aren’t having charismatic conversations everywhere you go you will lose out on life-changing opportunities to undeserving people over and over again. 

That’s why we created Charismatic Conversations…..



What would you do if you had the skills to talk to anyone, anywhere, at anytime?

This course exists because:

  •  I was tired of being thrown to the wayside for opportunities that went to less deserving people…
  •  I was sick of shallow and meaningless small talk in every conversation...I’d avoid events altogether...
  •  I was annoyed that (in my mind) I was doing and saying all the right things, but on the outside I was perceived as cold and even arrogant...
Do any of these situations sound familiar?

How often do you hesitate to walk up to someone out of fear of rejection or fear of the conversation ending awkwardly? 

How often are you the person in the corner looking at your phone at a social event because it’s easier than trying to talk to people?

How many times have you let life-changing opportunities pass you by?

Maybe a heartthrob at the market that you couldn’t approach…

Maybe you saw a business hero of yours at a networking event but froze up and couldn’t say anything. 

I’ve been in your position. We’ve all been there. 

How would you like to become the person:

  • ​That seizes every opportunity?
  • ​That forms memorable relationships with powerful people?
  • ​Achieving every opportunity you're deserving of because you are top of mind?
I know it’s possible, because I did it! And so have many of our students!

Sammy, Switzerland


"I have taken this class and come out the other side a totally different person. Before I was anxious, I used to think about what other people thought of me a lot and I wasn't confident in conversations at all. Since the class, I know how to approach people in social situations, I can read their body language and have better conversations. Overall - I can be MYSELF!"

Chris, Denver


"The Charismatic Conversations program really kickstarted my personal growth journey. It gave me the tools to understand the choices I was unconsciously making and change them for the better. It was great being surrounded by a support system that also cares strongly about personal growth and is not afraid to keep you accountable."

Chris, Denver


"The Charismatic Conversations program really kickstarted my personal growth journey. It gave me the tools to understand the choices I was unconsciously making and change them for the better. It was great being surrounded by a support system that also cares strongly about personal growth and is not afraid to keep you accountable."

Rohan, Texas


"Before participating in Charismatic Conversations, I struggled with persistent negative thoughts and was uncomfortable making small talk with strangers and even many colleagues at work. The accountability through the Facebook community and group calls helped me push out of my comfort zone and do things that I never thought that I would do and have made it easier for me to develop a rapport with others. 

Even people that have known me for many years have pointed out that there is something different about my personality. I also love the fact that the group sessions are available to review since I found the repetition to be extremely helpful as there is so much life-changing information that is presented. If you put in the work, Charismatic Conversations will have a lasting positive impact in your life and can open so many doors and opportunities that this training is truly invaluable."



If I was able to transform from an overconfident book nerd with no social skills, to a charismatic charmer in every room I entered, I guarantee you can do it too...
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It doesn’t matter what area of life you want to succeed in either…

Romance? It will come from your relationships...
Business? It will come from your relationships…
Happiness? It will come from your relationships...

45% of promotions and hires are from employee referrals 

68% percent of all romances (from one-night stands to marriages) are from introductions by mutual friends. 

68%!

So what’s the quickest path to building relationships? 

It’s NOT Tinder…
It’s NOT LinkedIn...
It’s NOT Social Media…

In-person conversations.
Welcome to Charismatic Conversations
This course was born out of frustration...
Most conversations DIE in the first 90 seconds because they don’t get past “small talk”...
What if you could have winning conversations and build deeper connections professionally, socially, and romantically...
(without using any manipulation or persuasion techniques)?

Transitioning to a tech driven world has suffocated us from developing in-person communication skills…

What does it lead to?

Dreading showing up to first dates, luncheons, or networking events because NO ONE knows how to connect with each other…

It’s an endless small-talk loop...No thanks!

I’d rather stay home and binge watch Game of Thrones...

What exactly IS
Charismatic Conversations?
We’ve gathered all the research surrounding charisma and conversation that have taken us 12 YEARS to uncover, added in exercises from real-world experiences with our own students, and beautifully curated it for you into an easy-to-follow 4-week program. 

After Charismatic Conversations, you’ll be able...
  • ​Have a conversation that connects with everyone you meet
  • ​Leave an unforgettable impression EVERY TIME
  • ​Become an expert storyteller and have people hanging on to every word you say
  •  Be able to have effortless conversations in any situation
  •  Have the confidence to approach and talk to the successful mentors in your industry 
  •  Be able to instantly connect with that jaw-dropping beauty that you think is out of your league
These are the advanced conversation skills that lead to building relationships. 

It’s time to reclaim human connection…

You might be asking…

What’s INSIDE Charismatic Conversations?
Charismatic Conversations is a 4 week program that is designed to help you create connections with everyone you meet. Whether it’s on a date, at a professional event, or randomly about your day…

You can go at your own pace, and each lesson can be completed in 5-15 minutes.

Joining CC gives you lifetime access to the members area so you can brush up your skills whenever you need.

In addition, you’ll have access to a private community of students going through the same struggles as you.
 
Lastly, this is not just a library of pre-recorded videos for you to watch... 

We also include TWO group coaching calls where you’ll actually practice everything you’re learning and get feedback from AoC Coaches. You will be able to meet and work with your classmates in these breakout sessions and hold one another accountable in your private community.   
 
So what are the modules?

Module 1: Moving Beyond Small Talk
  • ​How to START the conversation & quickly move past small talk (small talk is a necessary evil...you want to be able to navigate it so you can move past it)
  • The ULTIMATE technique to remember names & important info
  • Learn to move out of your comfort zone, find your practice ground, and start attending events
  • ​How to START the conversation and quickly move past small talk (small talk is a necessary evil --you want to be able to navigate it so you can move past it)
  • The ULTIMATE technique to remember names and important info
  • Learn to move out of your comfort zone, find your practice ground, and start attending events
Module 2: Compelling Conversations
  • The “FEAR Technique” to navigate conversations with strangers
  • The 3-Step Conversation Formula (This is the ultimate formula to connect with ANYONE in any situation) 
  • How to identify and respond to emotional bids (aka the often overlooked unconscious cues from the other person that shows they’re excited about a topic)

Module 3: Advanced Conversation Skills
  • ​The “5-5-5 technique” to get in a confident mind frame before any social event (so you don’t show up and wimp out of talking to people)
  • ​The secret technique to get the other person to get vulnerable and take the conversation deeper (so you’re not always the first one to get vulnerable)
  • Advanced Conversation Starters (These require a little more observation but will show you’re witty and attentive)
  • ​The 3 levels of vulnerability to gradually transition out of small talk...because you can’t just “take it deep” out of nowhere
  • How to properly ASK for contact info (hint: do this BEFORE the conversation starts to end)

  • ​The “5-5-5 technique” to get in a confident mind frame before any social event (so you don’t show up and wimp out of talking to people)
  • ​The secret technique to get the other person to get vulnerable and take the conversation deeper (so you’re not always the first one to get vulnerable)
  • Advanced Conversation Starters (These require a little more observation but will show you’re witty and attentive)
  • ​The 3 levels of vulnerability to gradually transition out of small talk...because you can’t just “take it deep” out of nowhere
  • How to properly ASK for contact info (hint: do this BEFORE the conversation starts to end)

Module 4: Storytelling and Humor
  • The ULTIMATE guide to storytelling (How to be a MASTER storyteller)
  • ​HUMOR: How to use the right humor at the right time so it lands 
  • The secret to BONDING over difficult topics...how to connect even if a disagreement or conflict arises (hint: sometimes this leads to a BETTER connection)


Bonus Content
Bonus #1: ULTIMATE Body Language Guide
  • 5 fundamentals of magnetic body language
  • ​What type of body language allows people to let their guard down around you
  • ​How to nonverbally present yourself so you’re loved and respected, not feared, or worse...forgotten

Bonus #2: Magnetic First Impressions
  • The TWO ways to ALWAYS be remembered
  • ​How to leave a lasting first impression that will keep you top of mind with everyone you meet
  • ​How to be the person that makes people say “I love your vibes!”

  • The TWO ways to ALWAYS be remembered
  • ​How to leave a lasting first impression that will keep you top of mind with everyone you meet
  • ​How to be the person that makes people say “I love your vibes!”

Daniel C, California


“Joining Charismatic Conversations helped me improve my interactions with people, from my first impression to growing my comfort with presenting a better image to people I saw every day. The exercises push you, gently, out of your comfort zone in order to help you change and grow."

Justin, NC


“The methods you will learn here aren't intended to get women into bed but rather to help you improve every aspect of your life, step out of your comfort zone, and yes improve your interactions with women.

As an introvert, my attitude has changed dramatically and I'm far more comfortable in my own skin than I was before I even knew what The Art Of Charm was. I was skeptical I would even get anything out of this program. I was wrong. Very wrong!

Sign up today! Your future self will thank you!”

Susan, Texas


The accountability exercises we did forced me to confront my fears and get out there. I ended up joining a class and a couple of regular meetup groups and have made some nice friends. I am now no longer self-conscious about speaking in front of people and offering my ideas and opinions.

While I had a good job and a small circle of loyal longtime friends, I still felt lonely and anxious more often than not. I had also just moved across the country and was working from home. I didn't know anyone and my shyness was getting in the way of meeting people and establishing friendships.”

Charismatic Conversations is NOT for you if: 
  • You’re looking for a “magic script” to instantly get anyone to like you
  • You want to use persuasion techniques or mind games to mislead people into “liking” you
  • You aren’t an action taker (you won’t succeed by watching the videos, but by implementing the info inside them)
  •  You can’t commit 1 hour per week to go through the program
Charismatic Conversations is for you if: 
  • Your past actions in conversations have not served you well
  • You’re willing to try (and fail) before you identify your own charisma in conversations
  •  You’re tired of all the “pick up artist” mind games and are ready for something authentic and science-backed
  •  You’re willing to invest 5 minutes per day practicing what you learn
  •  You feel like you’ve tried everything, and nothing has worked when it comes to having conversations
How do I Access 
Charismatic Conversations?
To work with us privately in our luxury villa in LA would cost you $7,000...

Is our private coaching program way, way more valuable than $7,000? Hell yes! We had a student graduate and within weeks had investors writing him a $100mm equity check for his business…

We’ve also had students leave and meet the woman of their dreams (can’t really put a price on that)...

So we decided to take the best pieces surrounding conversation from bootcamp and put it into an online program that only costs you $297! 

That’s 96% off what you would have to invest to cover the same amount in private coaching, and it comes with a daily step-by-step system, a community of people to answer any questions you have, plus neverending instant access to any future bonuses we add to Charismatic Conversations.

And because people were emailing us asking for it…

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This way you can try it guilt free without worrying about paying in full. 

Yes, you can join TODAY for only $49 and start to unlock EVERYTHING Charismatic Conversations has to offer. 

Or if you want to get a bit of a discount, you can pay all at once too. 

PLUS! If you’re not satisfied…
You’re also protected by AoC’s Guarantee!
"We’re confident that you’ll grow your confidence and overcome fear with our Charismatic Conversations Training. We also know that if you follow the steps and do the work, you will have a life-changing experience.

Just to back that up, We’ll give you 14 days to explore the program. If you do the coursework and honestly feel you didn't get any value from the experience, please write to us within 14 days of your purchase for a full refund."
AJ Harbinger
I’m Ready To Have Charismatic Conversations
That thing in your pocket that is supposed to connect us has become a wedge for building social currency…

I mean, how many people do you see at a networking event or bar hiding behind a bright screen?  

It’s time to reclaim human connection...

  • What if every conversation was exciting?
  • What if you left an unforgettable impression EVERY TIME?
  • Do you want to recognize the window of opportunity to take it from chit chat to meaningful conversation?
  • How would it feel if BOTH parties effortlessly engaged on a deeper level?
  • Do you want every conversation to be open, personal, and vulnerable?
  • Would you like to be able to give and take witty banter? And then take it deeper?
  • Do you want to be an expert storyteller? (AKA memorable and charismatic)?
You can get access to years of scientifically-proven, field-tested, techniques and training that our top students have used for over 12-years.
FAQs – Answers From The Art of Charm
HOW DO I KNOW THIS COURSE THIS REALLY WORKS?

A: Fair question! First, the Art of Charm has been transforming lives for over 12 years now through the podcast, the Bootcamp, and our online programs. The key differentiator for OUR programs vs other “self-development” courses you’ve experienced is that EVERY Art of Charm program is rooted in evidence-based practice and legitimate science. Based on our in-field coaching, work with experts, and hundreds of peer-reviewed scientific studies we know this training works in person and online. 

We’ve tested it and 100’s of students have seen the results they wanted and created real change in their lives. 
I’VE HAD PROBLEMS FINISHING COURSES IN THE PAST - HOW WILL THIS PROGRAM HOLD ME ACCOUNTABLE?

A: Procrastination and commitment are hurdles many people struggle with. It takes time, dedication, and perseverance to achieve your goals. According to research, the two factors that effectively help people achieve the behavioral changes they desire are practice and accountability. 

When you’re accountable to someone or a group of people for doing what you said you would do, you can easily get stuff done because you engage the power of social expectations. 

The American Society of Training and Development (ASTD) did a study on accountability and found that you have a 65% of completing a goal if you commit to someone. And if you have a specific accountability appointment with a person you’ve committed to, you’ll increase your chance of success by up to 95%. 

That’s why a like minded-community AND online coaching from the AoC Coaching Team are part of the program ➞ INCREASED ACCOUNTABILITY = INCREASED RESULTS. And you can use the 2 group coaching calls with AJ and Johnny, that are included in the course, as “accountability appointments”.  
I AM NOT SURE I HAVE THE TIME TO DEDICATE TO THIS PROGRAM RIGHT NOW. HOW MUCH TIME WILL IT TAKE FOR ME TO BE SUCCESSFUL?

A: We all lead demanding, crazy, busy lives. Trust us, we know after growing this company from nothing but a podcast 12 years ago! But the truth is you DO have time. 

We all have the same 24 hours in a day and as a self-development minded individual who wants to make positive changes and take action, your job is to prioritize the tasks that result in the most progress toward your goals. 

And to help you, we’ve designed this course so you can maximize your return in the shortest time possible. Most of the videos and trainings only take 5-10 minutes each day and you can practice the techniques in your daily life, so if you can find a few minutes to watch TV or zone out on social media each day, you can find the time to achieve the results you want from this course. 
HOW DO I KNOW IF CHARISMATIC CONVERSATIONS IS FOR ME?

A: We’re so glad you asked. We developed this NEW online training program for BOTH men and women to help them have winning conversations and build deeper connections professionally, socially, and romantically...

It doesn’t matter if you’re single or in a relationship, working for someone or running your own business, at the top of your career or just starting out, this program is designed to make you take action. 

The Art of Conversation is something that takes practice. Being a great conversationalist and moving beyond small talk is something you build over time through your action and cumulative life experience. If you’re feeling stuck, alone, frustrated, or like there’s more waiting for you in your life this program is for you. Taking action in the presence of fear or discomfort is the first step toward reaching your goals.  
$297 IS A LOT OF MONEY FOR ME - IS IT WORTH IT?

A: Perfectly understandable. Here’s the thing about better conversations... connection and being able to talk with others is crucial in all areas of your life. Once you’re able to confidently connect with anyone and develop a strong sense of self-belief in who you are and what you want, a world of opportunity opens up. At that point you will feel confident about:

— asking for that raise or promotion you deserve
— starting that side business you’ve always wanted
— leaving your day job to start your own business
— asking for a higher rate for your products or services as a business owner

We can’t tell you how many of our students over the last decade have used their newfound confidence to make awesome changes in their personal and professional lives. While you can’t measure the ROI of “conversational confidence” you can measure your increase in income or happiness from finally changing jobs, getting that promotion, or starting that business you’ve been dreaming of for years. 

Investing in ourselves is one of the greatest investments we can make in our lives.
“I can form a connection with anyone and anywhere.”
“I was super hesitant about AoC because it seemed like a big investment. I had done other workshops with other so-called ‘coaches’ and, while they were kind of helpful, they didn’t really make any lasting change. However, when it came to meeting people and managing relationships, I wasn’t getting anywhere on my own and needed to do something. The AoC Bootcamp turned out to be a ton of fun and gave me just what I was looking for.
Brian M
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