Success with Women – Why Luck Has Nothing to Do With It

If your success with women is lacking to say the least, don’t blame bad luck. When it comes to success with women, luck honestly has nothing to do with it. Yes, some guys are born with more aesthetic physical features than others, but good-looking guys aren’t the only ones who are successful with women, and attraction isn’t just about physical appearance.

First of all, when you entertain the idea of “luck,” you surrender any personal responsibility in the matter. And with a loss of responsibility comes a loss of control. If you believe that you’re not good enough for someone, then you’re not. It’s called self-fulfilling prophecy. If you want to succeed with women, you need to wipe the word “luck” from your vocabulary.

To take it a bit further, you need to rewire your thinking. You can’t control who will or will not be attracted to you, but you can control how attractive you are to others. Don’t assume that just because women haven’t found you attractive in the past, that you’re doomed to spend the rest of your life with that fate. If you keep doing the same thing over and over again, you’re going to keep getting the same results, but if you start making the necessary changes to your behavior, you’ll be amazed at what can happen.

If you want to start making these necessary changes right now, it begins and ends with your social skills: body language, communication, confidence. No matter where you are in your life, you can always brush up on these essential skills. Without these skills, how do you ever expect to meet Miss Right? Or even Miss Right Now?

Your attitude and mindset will always play a major role in how others perceive your level of attractiveness. If you don’t find yourself attractive to others, they won’t find you attractive either. That includes dating in or out of your “league.” So start showing the world what an attractive person you are, and stop letting others determine your value based on the insecurities that you project.

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Johnny Dzubak - author of 53 posts on The Art of Charm

Johnny happened upon the field of Social Dynamics and dating coaching quite by accident. Having been a touring musician much of his life, he felt the need to contribute positively to the world and was interested in the power of personal transformation. Johnny began educating himself about Social Dynamics and incorporating the concepts he learned into his day-to-day life. Soon after, he began coaching for a small Social Dynamics company out of Washington, DC; it was then that he met AJ & Jordan.

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