Whether it’s the first date or the fifth, a lot of guys ask themselves one simple question: Is she into me? There are a few simple things you can look for that will let you know if she’s digging you. This will allow you to spend more of your time and energy on having a good time.
Sign #1: Does She Respond?
Whether it’s to a text or a voicemail, if she’s responding to your attempts at communication, that’s a good sign. In the 21st Century, it’s easier than ever to filter the people that we don’t like out of our lives. What this means is that if she wanted to avoid you it probably wouldn’t be very hard. On the other hand, if she seeks out communication with you, it’s a clear sign that there’s interest and attraction.
Sign #2: Is She Attentive on Dates?
The phrase “phoning it in” has a new meaning in 21st Century dating. A woman who is into you won’t be spending a lot of time texting and messing with her phone on a date — if she spends any time doing these things at all. On the other hand, if she’s distracted by Facebook throughout the date, there’s a good chance she’s not really feeling it.
Sign #3: Does She Laugh at Your Jokes?
Laughter is an almost unmistakable sign that she is into you. Humor doesn’t really lie. It’s also one of the biggest attractors for women. Laughing at your jokes is a sign that you two have a connection, as humor is a very personal thing. It also shows that she can relax a bit around you. Of all the signs that she is into you, sincere laughter is probably the biggest.
Sign #4: Is She Chasing You?
Getting her to chase you is what we aim for at The Art of Charm. Like laughter, this is a clear and unambiguous sign that she’s interested. Getting her to respond to your calls is one thing. Having her call you is quite another. If she’s going out of her way to get in touch with you and make dates, you don’t need to ask yourself “Is she into me?” She definitely is.
Sign #5: What Does Her Body Language Say?
It’s not hard to lie with words. It’s very difficult to lie with the body. Most of our communication is nothing to do with the words we say. Rather, body language and tonality say far more than words ever could. When you’re out together, is she angled toward you a lot of the time? Or is her body turned away from you? Does she ever touch you? How does she react when you touch her? Analyzing her body language is one of the surest ways for you to tell if she is into you.
Remember that it’s not important that she’s doing all of these. However, if you find that she’s ticking two or more boxes, it’s a pretty good sign that she’s into you.
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