Conquer Approach Anxiety Once And For All 
Introducing...
Approach With Confidence 
Are you someone who suffers from Fear or Approach Anxiety?
Do you second guess yourself when you want to approach someone new?

Or maybe that negative voice in your head tells you not to bother them?

Do you try to think of the right thing to say only to watch your opportunity go by?

Or do you avoid new social situations or turn down invitations because it's just uncomfortable?

But maybe the most important question is this ---> 
What are you missing out on right now?

Because what’s holding you back right now has an effect on you. 
A profound effect on your ability to let go, have fun, and meet new people.
 
A profound effect on your self-expression and authenticity.

A profound effect on whether you start that conversation with the girl or guy you want to talk to.

Your Fear and Approach Anxiety actually keep you from LIVING THE LIFE and GETTING THE RESULTS you want ---- > 
If you’ve ever said… 
  •  "I'm afraid of getting rejected..."
  • "I’m scared of approaching strangers..."
  • "I’m terrified of running out of things to say..."
  •  "I worry about being left out of the group..."
  •  "I'm afraid I'm not good enough..."
  •  "I'm scared of the other people that are going to judge me..."
  •   "I'm terrified I'm a loser, I'm inexperienced..."

Then Approach With Confidence Might Be For You

After seeing so many people paralyzed and 
stopped by fear (including ourselves in the past) 
building this course was an absolute must. 

IT CRUSHED US to watch our community struggle time and time again with fear, self-expression, and approach anxiety.

IT PISSED US OFF that great guys and incredible girls with great potential were still coming home frustrated, angry, and confused day after day. 

And honestly...

IT ANGERED US so many people were suffering and that there wasn’t a good resource (backed by science) available online. People were suffering, and IT KILLED US that no one was willing to step up and help and create a program that could help thousands. 

We wanted to tackle this one important sticking point, which is FEAR & APPROACH ANXIETY.

We wanted to see our students become CONFIDENT & ENJOY BEING SOCIAL. 
We wanted you to realize:
YES, it is possible!
We wanted to see you GET EXCITED about approaching, growing, and improving…
It doesn’t matter where you are right now, your results (or your lack of results), are directly linked to your ability to deal with fear.

Every conversation, every approach, every experience that you’ve had has always been affected by fear.

Those fears, the fears we all share - those are called PRIMAL BASE FEARS.

The purpose of APPROACH WITH CONFIDENCE is to CONQUER those primal base fears once and for all. 
Some of these fears include:
  •  Fear of rejection (fear of failure)
  •  Fear of running out of things to say (perfectionism)
  •  Fear of what other people think of you (fear of judgement)
  •  Fear of new social situations (fear of the unknown) 
  •  Fear of being in-authentic, overly overt, or over-sexual (imposter syndrome) 
  •  Fear of not being good enough (self-judgement and self-attack) 
These fears are pre-programmed into our “croc” brains and into our minds. 

These fears hold us back in our daily lives and from the experiences we want. 

Sure, you can stay in your comfort zone, settle for what you have now, continue to get “average” dates and drone away at the job you hate for the next 40 years until you retire.

Or... 
YOU CAN FIND THE COURAGE TO DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT.
Before we go any further we want to help you right now, whether you join us in the course or not. 

Inside the course you’ll learn a lot about fear, why it stops us, and how to move beyond it. 

But right now what you need to know about Fear is this: 
Fear is a survival mechanism…
FEAR ONLY EXISTS IN SITUATIONS THAT COUNT
  •    The primal purpose of fear is to recognize danger. It's what kept us safe back in the days when lions and tigers where hunting us and it's why when you see a hot guy or girl the first thing you want to do is ESCAPE! Your brain recognizes that something important is happening… it’s now or never… it’s DO OR DIE!
FEAR IS ABOUT AVOIDING PAIN 
  •    Our brains are tricky and so is fear. Fear tries to help us out by having avoid anything that could be “painful” so approaching that girl in the bar is viewed as “pain” because we might get rejected. Fear will try to move you toward pleasure and keep you out of pain. 
YOU CAN NOT AVOID FEAR
  •    Fear is everywhere. We can’t completely remove fear, but what we can use it to MOTIVATE and SERVE US.
FEAR WILL ISOLATE YOU
  •    Fear makes you FEEL ALONE in the world, it feels like you’ve been thrown in a dark hole and are being buried alive... fear makes you feel lost… standing there wondering why you are the only one experiencing it. (NEWSFLASH: YOU’RE NOT THE ONLY ONE!)
FEAR IS NECESSARY
  •    It wakes us up, it drives us, it motivates us - If it wasn’t for fear, we would accomplish NOTHING - ESPECIALLY THE GOOD STUFF
WHAT DO MOST PEOPLE DO WITH FEAR?
People see fear as a reason NOT to do something…

They RUN AWAY

They see someone they want to approach and they immediately want to remove themselves from the situation. They try to “get over” their fear with escapism and short-term gratification.

They UNDER-FUNCTION

They try to control fear, and pretend it’s not there, (THIS IS NOT THE ANSWER, BY THE WAY) instead of simply LETTING GO. 

They STAY STUCK

Then there are those who become so paralyzed by fear that they are unable to take action, unable to move, unable to talk, unable to DO ANYTHING about it. 
THE QUESTION IS...
WHAT WILL YOU DO WITH YOUR FEAR?
Will you run away? (The fear will come back) 

Will you try to ignore it? (The fear is still there) 

You can try to overcompensate for it (The fear will still be there) 

You can try to hustle, out run it, or hide from your but...
Fear is always in your rearview mirror.

UNTIL ONE DAY YOU ASK ...

“What if…?”

“What if I had overcome that fear?”

“What if I had talked to that stranger - the one I found attractive?”

“Who would I know? ...Where would I be?”... 

“What have I missed out on?”

“What does it mean to push past fear, be confident and experience a life FULL OF ADVENTURE?”

“What is it that I am missing out on?”

The scariest thing is…
You will NEVER know the answer.
You won’t even realize what might have missed.

You can continue doing what you’ve been doing for years...

And keep on the path of hoping, stumbling, and failing to find a solution on your own… 

OR
You can make a change. 
You can get access to years of scientifically-proven, field-tested, techniques and training that our top students have used for over 12-years.
 You can join the others JUST LIKE YOU who are already taking action and... APPROACH WITH CONFIDENCE in any situation and overcome the FEARS THAT ARE HOLDING YOU BACK. 

THE #1 PROVEN PROGRAM to Get Rid of Your Approach Anxiety ONCE AND FOR ALL (And Increase Your Confidence… ) 
THIS IS FOR YOU

Regardless of your level of experience or any program you’ve tried before 

You might know what to do, you might have watched all the videos,even listened to all the podcasts and read a million books but if you’re still looking around and are wondering where are the results…
Approach with Confidence is for YOU if...
  •  You are an natural introvert (like Johnny and I) - and want to find your authentic extrovert side! (..you can be and access both)
  •  You feel you are a person who simply “can’t figure it out”, when it comes to social interactions no matter how hard you try.
  •  When you see a hot girl or guy you freeze
  •  When you are in a new social group you don’t know what to do or how to interact
  •  You easily get stuck in your head, you overthink things, or think that you are too logical, and get easily overwhelmed with all the different variables at play. 
  •  You just can’t get into action even though you know the theory and “what to do”. 
  •  You aren’t sparking enough banter and attraction quickly enough - you get stuck in conversation and stall out.. 
  •  You feel that you have HUGE potential, and are ready for more, but aren’t getting enough experiences to truly SHINE.
Before we show you what’s inside the Approach With Confidence, first let us show you life with anxiety and fear and the changes that are possible.
Life With Approach Anxiety
  •  Taking Action is PAINFUL & HARD
  •  Approaching Strangers is SCARY
  •  Running Away From Fear
  •  You Experience Self-Doubt, Self-Hate, and Imposter Syndrome
  •  You are Frustrated, Confused, and Unmotivated
  •  Your Life is a Downward Spiral
  •  Confused and Overwhelmed with All of the Content Out There
  •  You Are Trying, But NOT GETTING RESULTS. 
Life Without Approach Anxiety
  •  Taking Action is EFFORTLESS
  •  Approaching Strangers is EXCITING
  •  Tackling Fear HEAD-ON!
  •  You Experience Power and TRUE AUTHENTICITY
  •  You Are Empowered, Inspired, Motivated
  •  Your Life in an Upward Spiral
  •  Easily Connect The Dots Between Strategy, Theory, and Get into Action 
  •  Getting Results and BEING CONFIDENT Become AUTOMATIC. 
WHAT YOU WILL FIND INSIDE THE APPROACH WITH CONFIDENCE PROGRAM:
This Online Program is Composed of 2 Main Sections:
Section 1 = Emotional Mastery: understanding the “why” of fear and anxiety
Grow internally and feel more confident with real theories and science you can actually understand and use in everyday life.

Even if you’re busy and can only work on the course on the weekends - these teachings will be life-changing for you.

What Fear & Anxiety Do to You
You'll get to know what fear and anxiety do to you on a physical and emotional level. 

We’ll break down the science and help you understand how to banish Fear & Anxiety on 3 levels: 
- Psychological
- Emotional
- Physical
Section 2 = Comfort Zone Challenges
The Challenges are MISSIONS that are going to PUSH YOU out of your comfort zone, force you to go out but in a fun, supported way.

You’ll stretch your comfort zone little by little and step by step so you don’t even notice you’re expanding.

These Comfort Zone Challenges combined with the theory videos on the “Why” of fear and anxiety will prove to you that all your insecurities are possible to OVERCOME.

Not only will we show you how to do it - Our team will show you what it’s like to go through it for EVERY SINGLE CHALLENGE.

We’ll show you that all of the massive, inactionable fears you have aren’t really that big and can be conquered. 

The Comfort Zone Challenges make it possible to overcome approach anxiety and harness fear (and use it for good) in just a short amount of time. 
Approach with Confidence 
is only available for a limited time
You'll get lifetime access to:
Training
Videos
Mindset
Techniques
Comfort Zone Challenges
Social Skills Toolbox
Lessons
Online Coaching from the AoC Coaching Team
Supportive
Online
Community
Supportive
Online Community
BONUS!
Exclusive "Beyond Small Talk" Training with AJ & Guest Expert, Michael Sorensen
You’re also protected by AoC’s Guarantee!
"We’re confident that you’ll grow your confidence and overcome fear with our Approach With Confidence Training. We also know that if you follow the steps and do the work, you will have a life-changing experience.

Just to back that up, We’ll give you 7 days to explore the program. If you do the coursework and honestly feel you didn't get any value from the experience, please write to us within 7 days of your purchase for a full refund."
AJ & Johnny
FAQs – Answers From AoC Founders AJ & Johnny
HOW DO I KNOW THIS COURSE THIS REALLY WORKS?
A: Fair question! First, the Art of Charm has been transforming lives for over 11 years now through the podcast, the Bootcamp, and our online programs. The key differentiator for OUR programs vs other “self-development” courses you’ve experienced is that EVERY Art of Charm program is rooted in evidence-based practice and legitimate science. Based on our in-field coaching, work with experts, and 100’s of peer-reviewed scientific studies we know this training works in person and online. 

We’ve tested it and 100’s of students have seen the results they wanted and created real change in their lives. 
I’VE HAD PROBLEMS FINISHING COURSES IN THE PAST - HOW WILL THIS PROGRAM HOLD ME ACCOUNTABLE?
A: Procrastination and commitment are hurdles many people struggle with. It takes time, dedication, and perseverance to achieve your goals. According to research, the two factors that effectively help people achieve the behavioral changes they desire are practice and accountability. 

When you’re accountable to someone or a group of people for doing what you said you would do, you can easily get stuff done because you engage the power of social expectations. 

The American Society of Training and Development (ASTD) did a study on accountability and found that you have a 65% of completing a goal if you commit to someone. And if you have a specific accountability appointment with a person you’ve committed to, you’ll increase your chance of success by up to 95%. 

That’s why a like minded-community AND online coaching from the AoC Coaching Team are part of the program ➞ INCREASED ACCOUNTABILITY = INCREASED RESULTS. And you can use the 2 group coaching calls with AJ & Johnny, that are included in the course, as “accountability appointments”.  
I AM NOT SURE I HAVE THE TIME TO DEDICATE TO THIS PROGRAM RIGHT NOW. HOW MUCH TIME WILL IT TAKE FOR ME TO BE SUCCESSFUL?
A: We all lead demanding, crazy, busy lives. Trust us, we know after growing this company from nothing but a podcast 11 years ago! But the truth is… you DO have time. 

We all have the same 24 hours in a day... and as a self-development minded individual who wants to make positive changes and take action, your job is to prioritize the tasks that result in the most progress toward your goals. 

And to help you, we’ve designed this course so you can maximize your return in the shortest time possible. Most videos and challenges only take 5-10 minutes each day, so if you can find a few minutes to watch TV or zone out on social media each day, you can find the time to achieve the results you want from this course.
HOW DO I KNOW IF APPROACH WITH CONFIDENCE IS FOR ME?
A: We’re so glad you asked. We developed this NEW online training program for BOTH men and women to help them overcome fear, increase their confidence, break old patterns and overcome self-doubt.  

It doesn’t matter if you’re single or in a relationship, working for someone or running your own business, at the top of your career or just starting out - this program is designed to make you take action. 

Confidence is not an on/off switch. It’s something that you build over time through your action and cumulative life experience. If you’re feeling stuck, alone, frustrated, or like there’s more waiting for you in your life this program is for you. Taking action in the presence of fear or discomfort is the first step toward reaching your goals. 

Simply put - if you want more confidence, courage, and to overcome fear in all areas of your life this is the program for you!  
$299 IS A LOT OF MONEY FOR ME - IS IT WORTH IT?
A: Perfectly understandable. Here’s the thing about confidence and taking action. Once you’re able to face your fears and develop a strong sense of self-belief in who you are and what you want, a world of opportunity opens up. At that point you will feel confident about:

— asking for that raise or promotion you deserve
— starting that side business you’ve always wanted
— leaving your day job to start your own business
— asking for a higher rate for your products or services as a business owner

No matter where you’re coming from, having more confidence and not being afraid to ask for what you want results in generating more income. We can’t tell you how many of our students over the last decade have used their newfound confidence to make awesome changes in their professional lives. While you can’t measure the ROI of “newfound confidence” you can measure your increase in income or happiness from finally changing jobs, getting that promotion, or starting that business you’ve been dreaming of for years. 

Investing in ourselves is one of the greatest investments we can make in our lives.
“I can form a connection with anyone and anywhere.”
“I was super hesitant about AoC because it seemed like a big investment. I had done other workshops with other so-called ‘coaches’ and, while they were kind of helpful, they didn’t really make any lasting change. However, when it came to meeting people and managing relationships, I wasn’t getting anywhere on my own and needed to do something. The AoC Bootcamp turned out to be a ton of fun and gave me just what I was looking for.
Brian M
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The Art of Charm is where self-motivated people, just like you, come to learn about how to master human dynamics, relationships, and becoming your best self with the help of AJ and Johnny. Johnny and AJ bring over 11 years of coaching experience from their famous Bootcamps, where they host clients in Los Angeles from all over the world. Not only does The Art of Charm help everyday people, including active members of the military, learn how to become higher performers, better spouses, partners and coworkers, they dig deep into human behavior, the science behind it, and demystify what we do and why we do it.
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