6 Tips on How to Be Irresistible

The Art of Charm doesn’t just want to make you good with women. We want to teach you how to be irresistible to women. Nothing short of that is going to satisfy us. It’s not going to happen overnight, but there are some things that you can start doing the very next time that you hit the town to ensure that you grow into the type of man that women find irresistible. Here are six simple tips on how to be irresistible that any man can deploy on his path to greatness.

Stand Up Straight

Stop slouching. Stand up straight. Good posture is a building block of that most irresistible trait in men: Confidence. Even men who have zero in the way of confidence can start projecting confidence — and thus, acquiring a touch of it — just by standing up straight. This is one of the most basic things that you can do to create attraction in a woman. Practice your posture in a mirror and call on it when you need to after you head out.


Smiling and standing up straight are the one-two punches of being irresistible to women. These are the two biggest tips that we can give you. Much like good posture, you should practice your smile in a mirror just like your posture. Smile with your whole face, including your eyes and you’re going to have a smile that women find irresistible.

Don’t Be Afraid to Walk Away

One thing that will make you irresistible to women? Showing them that they’re not irresistible to you. Don’t be afraid to walk away. Take a lap, grab a drink, have a dance, hit the john, whatever. This is especially true when you’re really interested. Taking a minute to step away makes you irresistible because it shows that you’re not relying upon her for a good nice. It shows that you’re confident, independent and don’t need someone else to tell you that you’re OK. It doesn’t get much more irresistible than that.

Touch Her

When it comes to how to be irresistible, fewer things bridge the attraction gap faster than touch. Simple touches on safe areas like her upper back, her hands or arms create an irresistible connection between the two of you. They also give her permission to start touching you back, which, as we’ve seen on multiple nights out at The Art of Charm Boot Camps, a little bit of touch can make you so irresistible to her that she can’t keep her hands off you.

Make Her Laugh

The only thing that has ever seriously challenged confidence when it comes to making a man irresistible to a woman is sense of humor. When you make a woman laugh, you’re not just amusing her. You’re also defusing tension, letting her relax and showing her that it’s OK to have a good time. As social situations are inherently stressful, this is a great way to make yourself irresistible: Be the guy who showed her how to relax and have a good time and it’s a clear path to her heart.

Make Your Time Valuable

Want your time to be valuable? Make it scarce. Don’t be there whenever she wants. Put your work first, then your passions, then her. This is a great tip on how to be irresistible because it shows that your time has a value and if there’s one thing that women love, it’s things that have a high value. There are few faster ways to show yourself a high value, irresistible man, than by putting a premium on your time.